Sex with SPMS

Ali13

I was diagnosed 9yrs ago but, 3yrs ago I was diagnosed with SPMS. Would anyone be able to help me and advise me, as I still want sex & foreplay, but how can I have oral sex again, as I’ve not received oral for 7 yrs because it’s hard and difficult, but neither I nor my boyfriend can sort out this problem. I have abduction issues with spasms etc and can’t bend my legs, nor open them! Will I ever have the the experience again, as I used to love receiving it. What can we do, as I’ve lost 95% of what life I had and don’t want to miss out on sex of any kind. It makes me sad 🥲. I’m only 47yrs old.