How come learning disability men get nervous around pretty learning disability women?

Splatmate24

Why do some guys with learning disabilities get nervous around pretty women with learning disabilities? Could you please explain why this is happening? What is the difference between being nervous around women with learning disabilities and being nervous around women without learning disabilities? Is it because they think I'm pretty, or just because they see me that way? Only a few women are pretty. They get nervous when they see pretty women. It makes them nervous to be around a pretty woman. The other guys that i been texting don't seem that nervous or they could be hiding very well. However, one new guy that I matched with on Facebook dating sent a reply when he got nervous around pretty girls. Afterward, he also had a similar open learning problem to me as well. Also, I'm nervous around some guys that I do not find attractive. Being taller or cozier with some guys makes me nervous. Even when I'm not interested. Additionally, I've found some interesting people in my circle that I'd like to learn more about depends on the type of interest. I get nervous even when I go out on a date. How can you tell if a guy gets nervous when he likes a pretty girl? What is it about approaching women that makes them see me as attractive, but women don't see attractive men and stop approaching them?

Starlingbird

Each person is different, @Splatmate24. Some men are nervous around women, some are nervous around people in general, some are confident around some people and not around others. And the same goes for women! We get nervous for all kinds of reasons - it could be because we find someone attractive, but not necessarily. In the end, the people we get on with have got personality traits that we vibe with and often have things in common with us. A good relationship is based on far more than physical attraction. For me, a great sense of humour is a must, as is kindness, plus loving animals and nature.

janer1967

I'm sorry but i disagree with your comment saying only a few women are pretty and think that's not very nice to say 

Its not just about a pretty face beauty comes from within . Looks won't last but your personality will 

Splatmate24

@janer1967 s not  way i didn't mean  is was the spelling grammar word tune that autocomplete and i was one that didn't said a thing about few pretty girl and rude to call out people also . calling  out for person mistake when they nothing  wrong also very wrong thing to do . just leave at home .

Splatmate24

Starlingbird said:

Each person is different, @Splatmate24. Some men are nervous around women, some are nervous around people in general, some are confident around some people and not around others. And the same goes for women! We get nervous for all kinds of reasons - it could be because we find someone attractive, but not necessarily. In the end, the people we get on with have got personality traits that we vibe with and often have things in common with us. A good relationship is based on far more than physical attraction. For me, a great sense of humour is a must, as is kindness, plus loving animals and nature.

@Starlingbird .yep i know is more about the physical and about the personalty then good looks . i just bit fed up of some user not reread grammar and mistake they do . i was using a grammar tool called word tune that autocomplete sentence   if i spell things wrong . i always has be very nervous around very younger girls then me and i don't how they going to reaction to me . m also a women that is 24 year old and the sentence that did correct was that few pretty women is was auto correct is hasn't do with me and is very rude to re-correct a person mistake they not nothing wrong .

Starlingbird

I can't see how I corrected anything you said @Splatmate24, I was simply trying to be helpful. I apologise if it came across that way to you. 

Splatmate24

@Starlingbird is wasn't you that re correct i was in the comment after you that  didn't re correct me called janer1967 that  did re correct me   and did nothing wrong . is grammar tools that did auto correct the sentence not me . word tune is one that i used

Cher_Alumni

@Splatmate24 I think there was a little misunderstanding as people weren't privy to you using an autocorrect grammar tool in this instance. Let's remember to keep it friendly, in line with our house rules, and bear in mind that it's easy to misinterpret intention when using text to communicate.

Returning to your OP, you say you've found some interesting people. Are these potential friends or would there be a possible romantic connection?

Splatmate24

@Cher_Scope. i through i was being friendly and other user were  not . why has be me . i used grammar tool since i can't do grammar  that well . they are different meaning for being friendly . i only friend zone men that without a learning disability but mainly be looking for partner with a guy with a learning since i had to date them since my mum has a very strict with only me and nobody else in my family has to follow the rules . has more one with having a miss understanding . one that don't text much seem more like friends then potential boyfriend .  just one person but i taking is time with one new guy that i match through Facebook seem to be good but has be nervous .

 

Cartini

Rather than me using "learning difficulties" multiple times, my next comment covers both men and women who don`t have that challenge.

Some men get nervous around women (I won`t differentiate between pretty or not) because they are afraid of rejection.  Some men get nervous around women because they feel threatened by the intelligence of the woman.  Some men are nervous when socialising in general, regardless of the woman he`s talking with.

Dating is a minefield, for both men and women.

Starlingbird

Splatmate24 said:

@Starlingbird is wasn't you that re correct i was in the comment after you that  didn't re correct me called janer1967 that  did re correct me   and did nothing wrong . is grammar tools that did auto correct the sentence not me . word tune is one that i used

Ok, no problem @Splatmate24. I wish you luck in finding a good man 👍 

Starlingbird

Cartini said:

Dating is a minefield, for both men and women.

That is so true, @Cartini! It's a wonder anyone is in a relationship! Lol!

Cartini

Starlingbird said:

Cartini said:

Dating is a minefield, for both men and women.

That is so true, @Cartini! It's a wonder anyone is in a relationship! Lol!