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2oldcodgers said: I cannot understand why anybody would give up a job whilst waiting for a formal offer to start is issued for another employer.It's a good job that the poster didn't apply for a job with certain government departments. They not only want to see a good credit rating, they even want to check out your family down to the grandparents if they are still alive. I moved from one department to a different one and whilst they did the normal checks I had to go through a vetting process as well.I certainly would not have resigned on the sort of promise given to the poster.
Adeline said: 2oldcodgers said: I cannot understand why anybody would give up a job whilst waiting for a formal offer to start is issued for another employer.It's a good job that the poster didn't apply for a job with certain government departments. They not only want to see a good credit rating, they even want to check out your family down to the grandparents if they are still alive. I moved from one department to a different one and whilst they did the normal checks I had to go through a vetting process as well.I certainly would not have resigned on the sort of promise given to the poster. You remind me a lot of my uncle. He's always so critical of everything other people do and any time something goes wrong for someone, he likes to point out how exactly he believes it is their fault and how he is so superior as he would never do that himself. Yet interestingly never has any useful advice for helping a situation.. 🙄 Forthaven had a signed contract, so had no way to know it wouldn't work out.@forthaven have your former employer found a replacement yet? Maybe they would consider taking you back on? I'm so very sorry you are in this position.
Adeline said: Oh @forthaven, please let me explain. My comment was for @2oldcodgers, not for you. I thought they were out of line with their response to you and I was explaining that. I'm so sorry if you thought it was directed at you or that I thought you were to blame. I think your situation is just awful and I don't think you are to blame for it. I would have done the exact same thing as you did and I think most people would have to. Once you've signed a contract with another employer of course you must give your resignation to your current one. Not for one moment was I trying to insult you with my post. I was doing the opposite and trying to defend you against @2oldcodgers's insensitive and in my opinion incorrect reply.
forthaven said: Ok just a quick update, I have submitted a subject access request to try and get hold of my report. that might shed some light on this. the point here though is that this could be an error (Experian have done that before, was quite a long time ago, but i had murder trying to sort it out). the fact im not being given the benefit of the doubt at all, after making such a big commitment to them, is really out of order. Whatever the reasons, I think many people have a job that doesnt work out, for whatever reason. In this case, this short 2 week thing was an absolute nightmate, I was fired for 'not fitting in'- his actual words in the termination email, after asking me in the Interview if I had any disabilities (a huge red flag!). I am totally fed up trying to work. i just want to give up.
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