Is this discrimination?
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Hello @gwills88 and thank you for taking the time to reach out. I'm sorry to hear about your experience trying to secure a more suitable home for you and your daughter, and coming up against so many barriers, despite a supportive OT. If you feel you've been discriminated against, it's worth raising this as an issue with your local authority. Hopefully our members can also share their thoughts with you too!
It may be helpful to look into complaining with the local government & social care ombudsman, seeking housing help and advice from Shelter or perhaps contacting an advocacy service like the advocacy people for ongoing support.
It can be difficult to talk about negative experiences, but sharing them here is a positive step. Keep us updated with how things go, and I hope you can find somewhere that's right for you both soon.0 -
Hello G
What a frustrating and disheartening time you are facing trying to secure suitable housing for your disabled daughter. Discrimination based on disability is not acceptable, and housing authorities and organisations have a duty to ensure that the housing needs of disabled individuals are met. Perhaps its time for you to consult with a solicitor who specialises in disability rights or housing law. They will help you navigate the legal framework and ensure that the parties involved in this matter fulfil their obligations. With the right support and advocacy, I genuinely hope that a suitable home for your daughter will be found in the very near future.
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Hey @gwills88. A warm welcome to Scope's community from me. It is great to see you have joined us. Thanks for already finding the courage to reach out to us. I appreciate the courage it can take to reach out, especially when you are new and finding things difficult.
In all honesty, I have not directly experienced what you have. However, when I was younger my parents were told accommodation was not suitable due to my needs. I was too young at the time to properly remember what happened and what they went through. However, I know it took a while to change homes (from primary school age to secondary school age).
I also have a close friend going through the same at the moment, due to her own needs and those needs of her child which makes her accommodation unsuitable for both of them. They are finding there just is not enough property to find accommodation suitable for both of their needs. It is rubbish that this stuff is still happening.
I think their logic is that you could adapt your current accommodation to meet your daughter's needs. Instead, what they are trying to find is accommodation which is already suitable. I am fully aware this further limits and restricts the choices available to you though - especially with the current accommodation market. This is not helped by costs and a lack of accommodation coming above your circumstances and your daughter's needs.
Hopefully, you will find more suitable accommodation for meeting your daughter's needs soon. Are you able to ask the adaptations team to send you a letter regarding their reasoning? This would, at least, enable you to seek legal advice and support. In the meantime, please don't hesitate to let us know if there's anything else we can do to help - even if that is just extending a listening ear0 -
Hi Letitgo
I do know of the funding issue, I don’t expect my daughter to be granted or have things to meet her very need that just isn’t reality, I don’t think just because my daughter is disabled that individuals should bow down to her however I do want her treated with the respect she deserves and dignity. My post was aimed more at the treatment of the situation, being denied opportunities because of her disabilities, this really isn’t down to the funding. The communication breakdown is the cause of our case, and in my next post I will explain why.Thanks for your post0 -
I really hope you get your housing situation sorted so that your daughter can live comfortably and have a good life, and also so that for you it will be easier for providing her care. I really feel for you. She is lucky to have you fighting for her, it makes all the difference. My mum has always fought hard for me. Keep us updated how you get on.
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Hello everything, Thankyou for you’re reply’s!ALOT has happened since my original post, I liaised with the council to set up a meeting with everything housing association in my area to see if anyone can help our case, meanwhile whilst the final details were being confirmed we come first in line for a property with a large garden. Because of how many time previous we were declined I wasn’t going to be getting hopes up. The housing association contacted me to say they will be referring our case to the adaptations team once again (in the previous occasions the adaptions team took roughly 5-8 weeks to come back with a response), I received a phone call 2 days later to say our case was finally a go ahead and the property could be adaptable for my daughters needs. I really couldn’t believe it, I went through all the normal process of pre tenancy and was accepted! It did take a while before I seen the property in real life due to work needed as asbestos was found and general tidy up before a new tenancy’s, I picked up the keys one week after viewing it. My daughters OT and grants officer from the council came with me for the first viewing to discuss potential plans for adaptions, I still couldn’t believe my daughter is one step closer to having what she needs. It feels like fate really did leave the best house til last. From what has happened to our case, all agencies that didn’t communicate are going to be changing the processes to ensure another family does not go through the same as we did.Here we are now, shortly moving in. We have more space for her equipment, my youngest daughter now can have her own room & space and a large garden for them both to enjoy. The process for the adaptions will soon start, it will take a good 18 months until everything is complete however I am just so so grateful we are now at this point. Now we can starting making the house a home
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Hello G
I'm thrilled to learn that you've finally been allocated a fitting home after enduring all the stress and heartache. It's also reassuring to see that the agencies will be re-valuating their procedures, with the hope that no one else has to go through the same ordeal you did. All the best to you and your family really happy for you. xx
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What marvellous news! I'm also delighted that this is the 'best' house for you all too.0
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@gwills88 That's brilliant news! So please for you all0
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hello :)
yes most definitely, maybe all the stress was worth it in the end!G x
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