Can you suggest ways for me to date and get a longterm relationship only with learning disabled men?

Splatmate24

Yep is my mum is the main problem that comes to dating that only can date men with learning disability and my dad always agrees with his wife more than me. So I don't got anyone in my family member. I got two sisters but they can date who they want to date and no problem with mum. My mum always  with same line of men  abuse and rape come to dating and relationship . When I try to express my feelings and have always been the same with dating and relationship. Yet find with my younger sister to date who she wants and she might have a learning disability to. My mum never liked any guys that I went on a date with that were older than me or men that were age 30+. Yep, I did meet them through online dating apps / dating sites. They did all say they wanted a relationship on online dating but after meeting up they are not interested in being in a relationship and the last men did V two second dates and he said he wasn't ready yet. This is just some of these men are just lying or just changing minds. I already starting to dislike men that are 30+. Since they just want nothing to do with a relationship with me. I have rejected some of the men. I got rejected by one men. now i'm going to back to younger men since i can't get what i want from older men. II sent message to two men on Facebook.   I meant to say my mum will always use this line that men without a learning disability will take a advantage of me and will abuse me.what are your opinions that i'm struggling to get into a new relationship?

Hannah_Alumni

Hello @Splatmate24

I'm going to pop and email over to you  

theoldgit

Hi all, 
I can totally see where the above is coming from,    but been a 63 year old,  with a load of problems,  mental and physical,  God its hard to find a female who is willing to even think of taking on someone like me, OK I'm not a so called normal 63 year old guy, I've got long hair, tattoo's still living in the 1970s music wise, and cloths,    but I'm or would like to think I am open, honest and none judgemental of others, yes I like to know where and what has made them who they are today,  is there anything wrong in that ?? But I will always try not to judge others, as I wasn't there at the time, so have no right to judge,  
Anyway that is some part of my thoughts, 
It's hard being this old, and alone.
Thanks for reading this,  please take care of yourself, 

Splatmate24

@theoldgit I'm women that is 25 year old  with a learning  disability i shoulf be able to my own my stuff but I can't when is come to dating i'm always stuck with dating men with a learning disability . can't date men with  physical, disabled , can't date men with  mental health issues . these thing that i got a lot from my stupid mum that banned and rejected some older men that are 30+ i feel like i don't have any right at all but i do but not much come to dating and relationship , my mum never trust anyone that is older but always has trusted young men that have a learning  disabilities and asl well of learning disabilities for older men to . my mum is my main problem's and can't do nothing about . taking doesn't help . express my feeling doesn't help . used the silent treatments a lot on me .try to going on date with older then me but no many was intersexed in having a relationship with me . did met online first then did meetup after . i seen some older men that did had learning disabilities did kept asking me out and kept pushing when is too soon and trying to go slower but kept pushing me and did kept asking me out