Advice needed please

ella1992

This is to do with a nebouir who lives next door she is parking incorrectly when my partner is parking she can't get into her side well she has been giving us some right stick these last month some of witch I do have on the ring door bell. She moved her back bin in front off are car I then moved it she then moved it back so I pushed her bin over I suffer with bpd can't controll my emotions iv called the ploice sitll haven't been out how ever she called them on us about me nocking her bin lol 😬 anyways she calling me all sorts of names dole bum chav druggie u name it I do work but in her eyes I am dole bum. Also she is a nhs worker 😬 I only know her address and name how do I go about reporting her she is very evil person nhs worker or not she meant to help vulnerable not bully us 

ella1992

This is hear parking 

Biblioklept

I can't handle confrontation so not the best at advising on this, but as she's already verbally aggressive I'd worry this will escalate. Definitely record and make notes on everything that happens. Have you said about her parking is blocking you?   

ella1992

She isn't blocking us in though she's blocking her self in for the next day this is the issue iv called the ploice she called the ploice for me nocking over her bin housing have said they can't tell anybody how to park as long as ur in ur Bay:/ and also they said free mediation to hope resolve the issue she's moved 3 bins near are car iv moved them she said il call the ploice if u do it again and also housing said bins should be inside the bin bay but iv planned into her hands Sunday as I lost Mt **** bye swearing and pushed her bin over because she put it right in front of are car to wind me up guess what I did wind me up 

Hannah_Alumni

@ella1992 I'm so sorry to hear you are having such a dispute with your neighbour and that the police were unable to help. I agree with what Biblioklept has said about keeping a record.

I would look at reaching out to Citizen's Advice. They have an information page on Complaining about your neighbour that you may find helpful. 

ella1992

She is also a nhs worker does anybody no wear I can ring to make complaint about her as it worrys me if she bully's any other vulnerable people 

Hannah_Alumni

@ella1992 I would hold off contacting her employer. That could really escalate the situation. See what Citizen's Advice advise first. Please keep us updated! 

poppy123456

Why would you need to report them to their employer? Their attitude outside of work has nothing to do with their employer. I don’t think this indicates they are the same at work either. 

ella1992

But it does she calling me All sorts of names outside of work or not nhs worker shouldn't do this taken the **** outta Me saying I'm om dole doser calling me chav u name it every name under the sun lol 

Hannah_Alumni

@ella1992 It's not fair that she does, but as Poppy has said they may not be the same at work.

Albus_Scope

If the employee is wearing an NHS uniform or lanyard at the time, they tend to take this kind of thing fairly seriously now, as it reflects badly on them as a company.   

ella1992

I can confirm she had had the nhs lanyard on when coming to my door I have ring door bell as proof also