Hi, it's my first time posting but I've been lurking for a while as there's so much great advice on here.
I started my PIP process in early Sept and sent my form and evidence off. I have multiple issues mainly digestive and mental health based. My phonecall review seemed fine, it was an hour long, my husband was with me and contributed a bit, the woman I spoke to was friendly and and warm and I felt like I was able to get my points accross and that she understood them - that was until I got the report and she's given me 0 points.
From reading other posts I know this is devastatingly common, and whilst I haven't recieved my official letter yet, I want to be prepared to proceed with mandatory reconsideration as soon as I can. I've found the form on the gov website, but it says phoning is quicker - I just want to make sure that I can get accross all the points I need to and this might be easier done in writing rather than verbally.
There's so many things for example, I struggle with fecal incontinence basically everyday and use aids to help me, on top of that 1-2 times a week it's so bad that I need assistance to help me afterwards. I stated this repeatedly yet the report says in one place, 'no incontinence' and in others 'manages toileting needs on her own'.
Another descrepancy is that due to MH issues resulting in low motivation my husband has to all but force me to take a shower and get dressed on bad days, this was noted yet again I was given 0 points. Again 0 points for mobility despite a long paragraph outlining the overwhelming psychological distress of leaving the house for any reason due to incontinence issues, they said that I use grounding and breathing exercises to overcome panic attacks - I literally said I'd been taught these in CBT but they do not help me when I'm anxious! They said I don't have any aids - I have CPAP which my husband maintains and puts on me at night as I normally fall asleep without it... I could go on!
Sorry this is more of a rant than anything, I knew this would be a long and dehumanising experience and it hasn't let me down so far!