Finding love again

flick79

Hi, my ex husband walked away from me and our marriage two months after i was rushed into hospital that happened almost 4 years ago and sadly n9w i am wheelchair bound because of a brain injury and last year my ex husband said i was used goods now and that no man would ever love me now that i am stuck in a wheelchair 

Albus_Scope

Heya @flick79 I'm so sorry to hear about your ex husband.  It sounds like they're wanting to hurt you by calling you used goods, so please don't take any notice of them!
   Many wheelchair users are in very happy, loving and fulfilling relationships, there's even several dating sites/app made especially for disabled people. 

flick79

Thank you but i don't have enough confidence after the moment 

Albus_Scope

It's ok, confidence comes with time.  

MW123

@flick79 navigating health challenges demands extraordinary strength and courage. Always hold onto the understanding that your worth transcends external judgments. Despite the current difficulties, the future is brimming with endless possibilities. I acknowledge that your ex-husband's hurtful words about being "used goods" have affected your confidence, but with time, I truly believe you will rediscover both your confidence and inherent worth.

Your ex-husband's role in your life is just a small chapter in your remarkable story. Brighter days await you, and I'm confident that, in time, you will find a new, meaningful relationship with someone who appreciates you for the incredible person you are.

flick79

Beaver79 said:

Hello @flick79 I am sorry your ex is being so nasty. Do you go out to social events where you meet other people? Perhaps in the New Year you could join a local club near you. Your Council should have a list of those available. Take care.

Unfortunately i don't have the confidence i haven't been out socially since becoming poorly 

flick79

MW123 said:

@flick79 navigating health challenges demands extraordinary strength and courage. Always hold onto the understanding that your worth transcends external judgments. Despite the current difficulties, the future is brimming with endless possibilities. I acknowledge that your ex-husband's hurtful words about being "used goods" have affected your confidence, but with time, I truly believe you will rediscover both your confidence and inherent worth.

Your ex-husband's role in your life is just a small chapter in your remarkable story. Brighter days await you, and I'm confident that, in time, you will find a new, meaningful relationship with someone who appreciates you for the incredible person you are.

flick79

Thank you for your kind words 

Kimberleyh

flick79 said:

Hi, my ex husband walked away from me and our marriage two months after i was rushed into hospital that happened almost 4 years ago and sadly n9w i am wheelchair bound because of a brain injury and last year my ex husband said i was used goods now and that no man would ever love me now that i am stuck in a wheelchair 

What a horrible person he is someone will want you your well rid of him 

Kimberleyh

Exactly 

JaneCowell

Are you wanting to start a relationship? Were you married a long time? I'm sorry you feel upset by the comment from last year you must be feeling very low about it

Antony

Hi best just forget about your x block his number and have no contact with him life is hard enough with out some one putting you down you will never get any convidence till you forget about him i had a partner for 11 years untill i got ill with copd and Osteoarthritis in my knees hips and hands she said i dont intend to be a carer and left it really hurt me but soon i was over it and now moved on so im thinking i should meet some one with health issues so we can support each other

blather

I'm new here and just looking around. This thread resonated with me because my partner left when things got difficult.

Agulu

My partner told me he don't want continue relationship with me,

Agulu

I am convinced that I do not want to continue the relationship because I started to get sick, the last person I had is leaving taking away a part of my heart

Agulu

I am convinced that I do not want to continue the relationship because I started to get sick, the last person I had is leaving taking away a part of my heart