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It's not fair
Why are they dying
Prob old age and illness I know
But they have been part of my life for years
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I don't think he was in pain. I hope not
He wasmt sick
Yes I have many photos and memories
Not the same though
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Sending big hugs today
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You have this group we totally understand your pain and what your going through is extremely painful all the different stages it's the day we all dread the one thing through all the pain your feeling be proud of giving Toby the best life all the love and care and we do we pour everything into our pets everything that love takes a long long time to heal from your a wonderful kind caring person all animal lovers are for time being take it day by day and talk express your feelings we are here for you
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@Amberpearl I know it won't feel like it now, it's alot harder as you have had more loss than just Toby, they have all had an important part in your life for many years. You say they all passed peacefully which shows they were all well looked after and loved being with you. I never forget my pets who have passed i feel their presence still around but with time ive been able to remember the happy times. Grieving is different for everyone, im already worried about my 13yr dog as he is getting older and I love him as my best friend. There are I think? charities for those who have lost pets, prehaps you could reach out to any of them for support with your Grieving. Lots of good people on this site are here to help you talk about your grief. Prehaps when you are feeling up to it, post some pictures of your loved pets. Eventually you may even feel like you could offer a home to a new cat, unfortunately their are alot of rescue cats needing loving homes. Hugs.
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It never feels fair when they leave us @Amberpearl they live such short lives but make such a big impact in ours ๐
Blue Cross have a phone line and online chat for people experiencing the loss of a pet if you feel like you'd want to talk to someone:
Blue Cross Pet Loss Support | Pet Loss
Cats Protection have a similar service too:
Grief resources and support | Grief and loss | Cats Protection
And of course, we're all here to chat too ๐
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I've lost so many cats through illnesses and old age. It never gets any easier
I piece of me dies with every loss
I live alone and all I have are cats
My kids dont live close by
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They were all loved so very much
I've had pets all my life
I can't be without them.they bring me great comfort and joy
The pain of losing them is horrible
I lost 3 in the summer all within 5 weeks
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It's so very sad. Why can't they live longer
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I really understand I'm the same live on my own with fifi and pixie fifi 15 and I know it will affect me like yourself it's not easy at all I'm definitely more for animals than people
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Animals are so loving and necer hurt you
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Good afternoon.. feeling so so.
I think I got a virus. It is something between a cold and flu. Not sure what it is. . My anxiety and mental health not great . Rather bad.
It is very sad when a cat a dog etc .. go. I still remember my cat and it was more than 30 years ago. I do not want any cat as I do not really want to get through the trauma.
Hopefully you are all ok. I think the weather and the cold and humidity of my room paid a roll on me being sick with this virus.
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Sorry you're not feeling well @Schildpad, there's lots of nasty stuff about at the moment. Hope you're feeling more like yourself soon!
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So true and they don't ask for much either.
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Evening all btw.
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Morning everyone
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Morning all.
Dry,cold and a little bit soggy here today.
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I'm. Still feeling upset over Toby
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Afternoon
It's sunny 7 degrees y gas bill came
I owe ยฃ2,888
I can't afford to pay
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