Lees poem that I have written and will be reading at his funeral on 4th march

marybottomley
marybottomley Online Community Member Posts: 900 Empowering

Lee


L stands for the love lee had for me even when things got tough 

E stands for him encouraging me to go after my dreams even when I didn’t believe I could do it

E stands for the way lee explained things in the way that everyone understood and at the same time including everyone in the conversation 


A stands for how Lee accepted everyone for who they were no what disability race believes or sexuality they were 

N stands for naughty silly streak lee had in him

D stands for delight in lee’s face when he saw our friends and me achieving our goals and potential 

R stands for reassurance knowing that lee had your back in good and especially in bad times 

E stands for excitable lee got when me or our friends accomplished things for the first time by ourselves or with right support 

W stands for lee wanting to help everyone 


B stands for lee being brilliant at making everyone smile especially me

O stands for outstanding volunteering work lee did

T stands for tenderness and compassion Lee showed to everyone 

T stands for lee thinking of everyone else before himself 

O stands for lee observing and going to help friends and family especially when they were in trouble 

M stands lee making me laugh when I was down

L stand for lee liking everyone until they upset him which was not very often 

E stands for lee being expressive with his whole body 

Y stands for lee acting younger than he was in his silly moments 


Thank you for not only being my husband but my best friend 

Also for being the key to my heart and unlocking the love inside 

Finally for helping me on the journey of accepting that I am worthy of love and kindness and acceptance 

Rest in peace lee Andrew Bottomley my beautiful teddy bear who has now gained his angel wings and halo

All my love

Mary sweet pea xxxx

Comments

  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,717 Championing
    This is lovely @marybottomley. I can feel the emotion in the words. 
  • vikingqueen
    vikingqueen Scope Member Posts: 1,785 Championing
                That is beautiful @marybottomley so sorry for your loss.
  • MW123
    MW123 Scope Member Posts: 1,044 Championing
    edited February 2024
    @marybottomley
    A touching poem of the extraordinary love you shared and the extraordinary man Lee was. Brought tears to my eyes. Take care xxxx
  • luvpink
    luvpink Online Community Member Posts: 1,884 Championing
    @marybottomley

    such a beautiful poem mary.
    Thinking of you and sending love. 💕







  • Grinchy
    Grinchy Online Community Member Posts: 1,953 Championing
    a lovely poem, so so sorry for your loss, take care x
  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 62,750 Championing
    A nice poem @marybottomley good luck for the funeral 
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,705 Championing

    @marybottomley
    Oh what a beautiful poem with words so fitting to express the love you had for your husband and he had for you.
    Remember we are all here to support you when you need us.

    Take Care Mary ❤️

  • JessieJ
    JessieJ Online Community Member Posts: 925 Trailblazing
    edited February 2024
    @marybottomley, that is a Lovely, Emotional, Expressive piece of writing, Beautiful.
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,866 Championing
    @marybottomley Such a lovely poem. Sending you all my thoughts <3
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Online Community Member Posts: 16,724 Championing
    A lovely, heartfelt poem @marybottomley - thank you so much for sharing it. You & Lee are in my thoughts & prayers.
  • marybottomley
    marybottomley Online Community Member Posts: 900 Empowering
    Hi everyone
    thank You for all the kind words about my poem 
  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,381 Scope Online Community Coordinator
    Wonderful poem @marybottomley, really beautiful words. Your husband sounds like a really special person, I hope you can find some comfort in all the good memories you've shared. Thinking of you <3 
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Scope Posts: 12,464 Championing
    This is a beautiful poem @marybottomley. I'm really sorry for your loss. I remember you talking fondly about Lee back when I worked on the online community 💜
  • marybottomley
    marybottomley Online Community Member Posts: 900 Empowering
    Thank you 
  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,381 Scope Online Community Coordinator
    Sending lots of love today @marybottomley, hope you're able to share some happy memories of Lee with all who loved him <3
  • marybottomley
    marybottomley Online Community Member Posts: 900 Empowering
    Thank you