What's a red flag in a person that you would not take ?

zaddy123
zaddy123 Community member Posts: 30 Contributor
in Coffee lounge
Mine would someone being rude to a waiter. 

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  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Community member Posts: 14,982 Championing
    I wouldn't like to rule someone out because of one thing, everyone has a dark side, if someone was otherwise perfect I wouldn't let any one thing rule them out for me
  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community member, Scope Member Posts: 2,508 Championing
    edited March 4

    Several...

    Manspreading
    White socks or worse, no socks
    A thick neck and sloping shoulders you only get from bodybuilding
    Late evening text or call from someone you've just met or hardly know! 


  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Community member Posts: 14,982 Championing
    edited March 4
    WhatThe said:

    A thick neck and sloping shoulders you only get from bodybuilding


    It actually cheers me up that there are people in the world who are not attracted to bodybuilders :D 

    I was starting to think no one would want a fragile person like me and everyone expects people to be aggressive and "manly" whatever that means

    I can find people of either gender attractive but I have never found a male bodybuilder attractive

    Sorry if that offends anyone who is a bodybuilder, I didn't intend to mean it to offend
  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Community member Posts: 14,982 Championing
    @Biblioklept yeah I didn't mean that it's a red flag for me, I am actually really impressed by massive people - they must be hugely strong and have a lot of dedication - just don't find them endearing if that makes sense :blush:
  • 66Mustang
    66Mustang Community member Posts: 14,982 Championing
    I'm not sure but I did used to assume all bodybuilders had an aggressive personality to match their looks. I think there is some correlation but not to tar everyone with the same. I have actually come across a couple of, literal, gentle giants :D 
  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community member, Scope Member Posts: 2,508 Championing

    Although I do admire the time and dedication it must take!!! 

    That's why it's a red flag for me. Sloping shoulders that don't fit a shirt tells me they don't know when enough is enough. It suggests they are rather vain and more interested in impressing each other rather than worshiping the goddess in their life. 
    Because we are goddesses and deserve that time and dedication! 

    (Obviously I'm single :D)


  • poppy123456
    poppy123456 Community member Posts: 61,736 Championing
    Add me to the bodybuilder dislike club, it makes me cringe. Women are even worse than men. There's nothing worse than seeing a woman with muscles  :#
  • JessieJ
    JessieJ Community member Posts: 696 Pioneering
    Another that is repulsed by bodybuilders, male or female. 

    Red flags, folk that are sarcastic, patronising or controlling.
  • Steve_in_The_City
    Steve_in_The_City Scope Member Posts: 720 Trailblazing
    I agree with @Beaver79 It is horrid when people are unkind. I also hate racism. 
  • Viola
    Viola Community member Posts: 41 Contributor
    One of mine is when everything they do is bigger and better than anything you do 
  • bookrabbit
    bookrabbit Community member Posts: 197 Empowering
    I think bodybuilders are very unattractive too. 

    Red flags are evangelists and people who keep trying to touch me:(

    Oh and people who respond to the fact that I am vegetarian and have rabbits by talking about rabbit pie:(


  • Jimm_Scope
    Jimm_Scope Posts: 5,410 Online Community Team
    I feel like a red flag isn't a "this means I should cut this person off", but it's a possible sign of a bad personality/not nice person. Since there was a small bit of discussion about it earlier in the discussion.

    I think everyone has said things I quite agree with, but for me I think being mean or cruel to animals really stands out for me as a "not ever acceptable". 
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Community member Posts: 8,656 Championing

    People been rude and cheeky for no reason. 

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