We want to hear from you: please tell us about your experience of the online community.
Poppy71 said: Hi, Please can anyone help. I have Fibromyalgia, CFS, (started 5 yrs ago following Shingles and meningitis) as well as other health conditions. Asthma, Osteoarthrosis and urology problems since bladder repair.I have worked as a nurse for over 33 yrs. Unfortunately the last 5 have been traumatic. I have explored every adjustment to stay in work but unfortunately this has led to resentment from colleagues and I have still had long periods of time off sick despite flexible working, wfh (community nurse) working part time and using A/L at short notice to have time of due to symptoms.My CFS and Fibromyalgia symptoms became worse following covid infection 12 months ago and not been able to return to work.I have had regular sessions with a psychologist via OH and come to the realise that work is a trigger for my symptoms and also lead to me being severly depressed and suicidal prior to going off sick this time. I have also faced capability meetings.... Brain fog, memory problems and my cognitive decline has led to mistakes and not being able to keep up with workload.My Gp, manager, HR and both my consultants, Endocrinology and Rheumatology are supportive in me applying for Ill Health Retirement. I have a letter/evidence from both.Unfortunately the Occupational health Doctor who did my assessment was very dismissive of my journey/Symptoms and kept 'cutting me off' mid sentence. Despite supportive letters from both consultants she summarised that at 52 I would probably be better soon and could probably find a job working from home. When I disagreed and explained It was unlikely I could learn a new job and would still have same problems she told me not to be pessimistic.Is there any point applying for IHR? I'm pretty sure her report for the AW33e form will not support IHR.Do I have to have Occupational Health fill out the form?I feel I have done my best throughout my career and obviously would still be doing the job i love if i was well enough! The Occupational Health Doctor spoke to me like I was lazy and told me if i lost weight i would feel better! I have put on a lot of weight due to my symptoms 😔
Poppy71 said: This really is very helpful Scott. Once again thank you for your time. Sorry to hear of your own health status. I have applied for Pip and had really good resources from work and benefits site so fingers crossed.Definitely not resigning but more than happy at my next meeting for them to finish me due to ill health. My manager has been really helpful in trying to help with reasonable adjustments but as you said I have also eventually had to admit to myself that I can not continue.My quality of life when trying to maintain work (even on 3 short days) means I have no energy or motivation to go out of the house for pleasure. My mental health suffers and this impacts not just on me but my husband and family. I have unfortunately lost my friendship group and social life barr 2 close friends who understand my struggles. Despite the financial worries, I am definitely doing better with my mental health. I'm feeling more positive about spending some quality time with my family and working with my physio to increase my physical activity very slowly to find a happy place. Just having a coffee with my bestie is a great feeling. I'll defintely take your advice. I'm thinking of stopping the process for now and getting some more information and research done so I have a better chance of success.What happens when you complain about Occupational health? Did you get a different doctor? I'm also going to ask Acas as Albus_scope suggested to ask if I can do the forms without input from OH once I have been dismissed.Hope this thread might be helpful also to others going through similar.Best wishes
Poppy71 said: Thanks for looking at the form thats so good of you. Unfortunately Unison have been a total waste of time and region rep was annoyed with me for complaining but unwittingly gave me another rep who is really nice but I guess not much more knowlegeable than me and not assertive. (Hence why im looking for advice on here). My meeting to dismiss me is very soon and already been rearranged twice. I'm guessing then once dismissed im unable to apply so will have to go with report privided my current doctor 😔 Thanks for signposting re groups - i've joined one locally on fb but not been to a meeting yet. Hoping to do so soon tho 👍
The value must be greater than or equal to 1.
Get more out of your online community by signing in or registering