Hi, my name is happyme86!

happyme86
happyme86 Online Community Member Posts: 2 Listener

Hi I applied for pip based on my health I suffer with PTSD , anxiety, and depression I work 10 hours a week and struggle and have days we're my daughter who is 17 helps me do daily chores and helps cook and with my younger child like dose the school run for me sometimes and the lady from capita doing the report has rang me back a week later saying she has safe guarding concerns and is refering this to safe guarding I'm now sat feeling like the worse mum ever but my mum helps me and my daughter aswell we already have family supporting us any advice

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  • Jimm_Alumni
    Jimm_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 5,717 Championing

    Hi @happyme86, welcome to our community 😊 I'm sorry to hear about what's happening. You've done nothing wrong in applying for PIP. It sounds like you really need it and it should help. We at Scope sometimes do safeguarding when we see something that concerns, and we have to inform the person being safeguarded of course. Now, safeguarding does not mean there is anything wrong, but it is to check and ensure everything is actually okay. It does not mean you are a bad mum at all. You clearly love both your daughters, and you receive help from your mum and your daughter. There is nothing wrong or bad in that.

    Do you have your assessment appointment yet at all or is this the first contact you've had from them?

  • happyme86
    happyme86 Online Community Member Posts: 2 Listener

    Thank you @Jimm_Scope , it's just made me feel so bad the capita lady rang me this morning took Me totally off guard as I had no idea they were ringing I've also had a phone call from my GP as DWP has contacted them and my GP receptionist has said I need to go and see my GP to discuss things DWP want to know about and my daughter helping me I feel so stressed out today with all of this I wish I had never bothered now my anxiety is through the roof I was recently awarded lwcra and it was the mental health work coach who told me to apply for pip I already feel like a failure from the break down of my marriage and my PTSD and now all of this 😩