Harassment and abuse from a ex partner

helpless77
helpless77 Community member Posts: 1 Listener

I’m after advice if any one can shed light on this for me or any help would be appreciated

For the last two years I’ve been inundated with false allegations I have a non molestation order on the her but she still refuses to lent she has made my life hell was arrested in July early hours 7 am on stalking charges accused of I’m parked out side her house for 5 hours a day while her new partner is at work who she got into a relationship after 8 weeks after breaking up with me she also claims dwp and pip and is awarded the full disability amount all dishonesty awarded I was kept in police cells for 9 hours with out medication and no food refused to take the food and wouldn’t let me have my medication with out been seen by there nurse first .

I was so upset and angry I refused to even take water from them

List of accusations

Stalking which I’m on bail for till 20th August

Dwp been investigated 5 times

Pip been investigated 3 times

Social services 2 times accusations or being a violent ex partner my children from my previous relationship contacted about my access to see my grandkids

Illnesses

Triple heart by pass riddled in arthritis in my joints

Insulin dependent diabetic

Spinal surgery ACDF surgery PINS IN MY NECK

detached bicep from the right shoulder three tendons snapped on my rotor cuff two tendons snapped in the right knee local hospital won’t operate on me because I’m to old and I’m not a football player is why they won’t operate Mentle health is really low feel like taking my life and ending it all

The reason I’ve come on here is to make everyone aware while I was with this women she posted on social media sites videos and pictures which she had secretly been recording doctored to painting a picture of her being innocent turning up at my home banging on my door early hours of the morning she even forced her way into my home and when I called the police they arrested me and deleted the cctv footage were I was thrown to the floor and had my phone punched out of my hand by two police officers so the police let me down the the doctors let me down at the hospital and Solicetors let me down because the non molestation order isn’t worth the paper it’s written on so we’re do I go from here do I can carry accepting this I can’t move not in a financial position to do so even the local mp wasn’t interested never got back to me so what’s every one views on this I take every day as it comes and seriously don’t want to be here anymore 😍

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  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 6,790 Online Community Coordinator

    Hey @helpless77 and welcome to the community.

    I'm so sorry to hear you feel like you've been let down. It sounds like a difficult situation. We can't give legal advice unfortunately, but I'd suggest maybe your local CAB could help?

    I've popped you an email, please be on the lookout for it.