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Help needed - Picking up a dog - Have no family or friends - Journey Help

JF7891

Hi there,

I have schizophrenia, stoma bag, anxiety, depression and lots of other things.

I am picking up my pug dog next Friday, however it is really really far away (9h trip), and I have to plan everything, I already bought all the puppy supplies, the dog, and tickets. I have made a lot of notes guiding me through the travels.

However I would feel way safer, if there was someone I could call if something goes wrong, as I have no family or friends left here in the UK.

The travel time would be between 9am-10.30pm, so it's kind of out of hours, and e.g. I am also scared because of stoma bag changes, railway works i.e. replacement busses without toilets and longer travel time etc., annoyed travellers etc.

I am really scared, but I would do anything for my dog!

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michael57

have you thought about using a licenced pet courier may be less stressful for you and the dog

JF7891

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/911961#Comment_911961

That's a good idea, however it's a very long travel over multiple counties, at least 4-5 to and another from. Quotes start at £310, picking her up myself is £100.

michael57

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/911965#Comment_911965

no problem just a thought at least you will have some bonding time on the way home enjoy the trip

Zipz

Are you planning to travel 9 hours by bus or train with a new puppy, who does not yet know you or the wider world? It sounds a lot for you with you medical conditions. It will be traumatic for the pup! Animals suffer mentally too. He needs to travel safely by car. Bonding comes later when he's home with you.

JF7891

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/911986#Comment_911986

No, I'm planning to travel only 4h with her by train only and one short 10 mins taxi ride.

Jimm_Alumni

Have you informed the rail companies that you may need assistance? Rail companies can often put things in place to help you on your journey, I would at least mention that may need help with toilet access given the stoma bag?

JF7891

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/912145#Comment_912145

The assistance they provide has always been marginal, that's why charities and the NHS hand out RADAR keys like candy. But there is one particular train stop where would like to at least empty my bag, however it states on their info page that if it is out of hours, there won't be any staff to open the toilets… I just don't know whether there is a direct barrier or whether it's just locked, and I can open the accessible toilet with my RADAR key.

Jimm_Alumni

Yeah, I'd have been in a bad situation with my Crohn's a few times without a radar key. You could call ahead and ask about the facilities at that particular station? They should be able to provide information on it.

JF7891

It's mostly for a some form of phone contact, where I can call like 24/7 on matters of travel in case I get stranded or such, I am anxious person so having that comfort means a lot already. I just want to plan everything ahead so it will be as smooth as butter.

JF7891

I tried calling them just now, someone picked up, but then left, and all i can hear is these ominous background noises, as if it was murder scene.

JF7891

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/912188#Comment_912188

What planet have you grown from that you carry a tiny pug puppy in a massive create by hand lol, seriously get a grip, and stop condescension masked as worry, dont need your judgment, srlsy this is sickening im appalled

JF7891

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/912188#Comment_912188

Pug puppies weigh less than 2kg
They are supposed to be carried in a sling while travelling
You pick pets up, you dont ask the seller to deliver them
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Clearly you dont know anything about stomas, all you need is a few wipes, tiny dog poo bags, tiny spray bottle, and a spare stoma bag, thats literally it

I know dog care as i had a dog for over 8 years, who literally just died 2 days ago on the exact day of my mum's one year memorial.

Furthermore, i have been a vegetarian nearly all my life and have risked my literal life and got hurt in the process for my former dog, [Edited - uncivil]

WhatThe

MW, from one genuinely disabled person to another, I am also appalled and have flagged those last comments. There's bad-tempered and there's abusive and this reads like abuse which you certainly don't deserve.

JessieJ

We that rude & unbelievable attitude, I doubt much help will be forthcoming.

WhatThe

He wasn't asking for help, just telling us his plans.

Steveket67

hi, I suffer with anxiety, depression and PTSD so I totally understand your concerns. I’d be more than happy to help you out in any way I can. Stay positive and keep telling yourself that you’ve got this 💪🏼. A puppy is also a great incentive to get out outdoors. Everyone loves a puppy so it’s a good way of meeting new friends… 👍🏼😁

Zipz

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/912198#Comment_912198

I am concerned about your puppy.

Good breeders of pedigree pugs (and other breeds) take care over many years to produce a healthy pup that is ready to leave its Mum at about 13 weeks. It's an expensive process and a pug puppy from a reputable breeder costs about £750 or even double depending on its lineage.

At 13 weeks your pup ought to be house trained and used to household noises. However, it will not be used to travelling for four hours even assuming all goes smoothly. I am surprised that the breeder is not concerned.

You mention that you cannot afford to pay for a courier. Perhaps you ought to have thought about your budget before buying a dog that could live sixteen years. Will he be insured for this length of time? If he is taken ill will you suddenly find hundred or thousands of pounds lying around to cover the vet bills? Do your homework.

Jimm_Alumni

Hey everyone, I understand a miscommunication has happened here. At least that seems to be my take from reading this discussion! If we could please focus on the specific topic at hand and move on from what has happened that would be appreciated! I'll be messaging a few people to check in with them and chat about what happened here.

michael57

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/912288#Comment_912288

i have a question how on earth do you know the poster is or was a she and not a he whatever they are they only had constructive advise until they never liked it and i have to say advice given was polite the said posters response was not i can see this will be another post shut down poster leaves and a scathing review on trust pilot ground hog day springs to mind

JessieJ

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/912218#Comment_912218

Er….pardon? The title of the thread

Help needed - Picking up a dog - Have no family or friends - Journey Help

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