Why do I feel ennui/bored at social events in the city centre?

Katiedimelow20

year 2025 . I attended a social event in the city centre and once again felt ennui/bored by them. After i went to the toilet everyone there just ended leaving . I went back on the train to go home . I didn't get have a good night's sleep . Only 3 people were there. i already know most of the people that went there . It has happened twice in 2024 when i got ennui / bored . Happened in December too and I felt the same again. Now i'm going to be always be thinking is will be ennui/bored now that i kept going to the social events . Dating hasn't been going great with real life . trying to meet new people . i had met some people before but i just wasn't the right fit . i have to be online dating as since but online dating has only not be that great to . kept getting creepy old men that just want to have sex with me . i'm not sure if i'm intersted in sexaul relationship . i would prefer a long term relationship . so far i not getting anywhere close . what can do ?

Rosie_Scope

Sorry you haven't had a reply to this yet @Katiedimelow20. And sorry to hear things aren't so good at the moment, that sounds frustrating.

Are there any new hobbies you think you might like to try? Maybe there's something else you could do while you wait for the other events to become more interesting again.

Katiedimelow20

@Rosie_Scope  is okay but there is no social events in my town since my know for is just tons of sport for different disabilities & learning disability. Did go one Valentine's Day party different area then my town . Still seem be having issues with my mum kept repeating same words what shouldn’t say to a anxious person . Went to Manchester again on Saturday is was difficult. As well of Wednesday was very difficult. I prefer Friday.