Hi! I'm new here but have been reading posts for a while.
I'm 63 (64 in August), unemployed since 2020 and on stand alone UC (£393.00 pm + single persons ILA for rent).
I have a few ongoing health issues which are getting worse spondylitis/arthritis, chronic fatigue, gerd, anxiety which I've had since I was late 30s/early 40s. I have managed these conditions as best I can but I am at the point it is getting more difficult as deterioration and age is doing it's job.
My work coaches have doubled down on me to find work. I was volunteering 2 days a week but even that is too much for me. They "insist" I continue as "it is good for my mental health", "will give me an updated reference" and it will improve my customer service skills. I have worked since I was 15 (1977) to management, counsellor and own business level but apparently I need to update these skills Ive had and taught for over 48 years.
My queries now is, I'm going to my doctor on the 18th Feb for tests etc, get Fit Notes and try and go down the wca/lcwra/pip route. I have never done this before and it's desperation that's causing me to take this route now. I am incredibly worried about these new wca changes and the loss of lrwca for new claimants. The thought of being bullied into continuing job searches, courses, volunteering is really sending me into a downward spiral. It is not helping anxiety and depression and I get into a right old state when I have to have video or office appointments every 10-14 days.
My coaches have been unrelenting in reminding me that if I am claiming UC then I have to do as they tell me or I'll be sanctioned and that I have to accept that I have to work for another 4 years (3 and a hf actually) as I cannot retire until I am 67 (these increases make me angry). They are now talking to me like I was a school leaver or never worked in my life, it's humiliating.
So, my question is, how do I handle these changes in moving forward on "my health journey"?. My work coach also told me after insisting that I continue volunteering that if I can volunteer 2 days a week then I can work even with all my health conditions.
I'm at my breaking point and welcome any helpful advise.
Thank you!