What do you guys think ?

Lilla88

I have a boyfriend since 1 year. It is a happy very peaceful relationship. He is planning to move in with me, posts me often on his WhatsApp etc. on his fb he has displayed on his relationship status : “ in a relationship”. I have just checked it today and I have realised that the relationship status completely disappeared , as he hid it. I have a second fb account and I also checked on there too. Which was again hidden. I have asked him why did he remove it ? He said he never did and then he sent me a screenshot of his fb that it still shows “ in a relationship” for everyone.
when I checked I have seen the relationship status again. He said it is most likely a technical glitch from my side and then he got angry for not believing. I am so confused …

Bluebell21

Hi @Lilla88 It does sound as if something is not quiet right here. I would be very careful before allowing him to move in with you.

How often do you actually see him in person as opposed to messaging?

He has no reason to get angry when you ask him a question as you are just trying to confirm his status on fb.

Please take care of yourself.

Rosie_Scope

Hi @Lilla88, sorry to hear you're feeling confused about things. It's good that you felt able to talk to your boyfriend about it though. Do you have any reason to suspect he might not be telling the truth?

Hopefully it's all a misunderstanding and you can both move on from it soon ☺️

Lilla88

Hi @Bluebell21

We see each other a lot. He is involved with my family, sometimes I spend 2 weeks at his. We live in the same city. Consistent and very caring man. So this is very out of character and I don’t get it. As mentioned before he posts me everywhere on social media too. It is hard for me to believe it was a technical glitch to be honest.

Bluebell21

Hi @Lilla88 You obviously have some doubt about his answer. The concern I would have he is trying to blame you for the technical glitch.

I hope you can sort this out and go forward with your relationship.

Good luck.

Lilla88

@Bluebell21 Thank you lovely x

eddieG75

hi everyone my name is Eddie I am 49 yrs old and single I have two kids from a previous relationship who mean the world to me I am a type 1 Dieabetic with MS ( Multiple scoliosis) I feel whenever I mention this they just don’t want anything to do with me I am a very laid back guy who loves a good laugh normally at myself lol

Rosie_Scope

Hi @eddieG75, welcome to the community. Sorry to hear you haven't had much luck when you mention your situation.

I've heard some people saying that their disability is a good filter for people when it comes to dating. While it might feel bad at the time to get rejected over something that you can't change, it shows that they don't understand you and they may not be the best partner anyway. Never nice to be turned down but hopefully the right person comes along for you soon ☺️

eddieG75

thank you Rosie no they de not my kind of people but at times you do wonder if you will ever meet someone