Hello again

Jane315STARX

My son is not doing very well at all but I'm trying everything I can to get him the help he needs.We are both not in the best of situations but neither is anyone it appears

Albus_Scope

I'm keeping everything crossed for you and your family @Jane315STARX we're all here for you if you need to talk things through.

Jane315STARX

Thanks Albus.Basically he is suicidal and has formed an obsession to a girl who he doesn't see but texts and she sometimes blocks.She has a tendency apparently to take overdoses ( as do her few friends).My son has adhd and is about to be diagnosed with autism.Has no other friends and has been extremely badly bullied.I have seen messages to himself abd messages back and forth to her whereby he says he wants to end his life if she isn't in it.he lists an extensive list of about 50 valid reasons including that he doesn't fit into society and quite frankly I understand why he feels the way he does.I have the GP involved who says its normal and that he presents at normal for a teenager.But his school are very concerned.I see him at home and I know that he basically has no life,no friends,no family other than me.

durhamjaide2001

good morning @Jane315STARX

Albus_Scope

Oh that sounds very hard @Jane315STARX I'm so sorry. But I'm glad your GP is involved, but it sounds like this may need to be escalated, especially if there's another person involved.

Jane315STARX

Yes as far as the GP is concerned she is not really involved as she doesn't think its of a concern but CAMHS Are now involved

Jane315STARX

@durhamjaide2001 Hello hope you are well xx

durhamjaide2001

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1072573#Comment_1072573

unfortunately not I'm in hospital but hopefully I'll get home today

Jane315STARX

Oh no I do hope you get home today and can recover.I am sorry you have needed to be in hospital and hope you on the way to getting better now X

Jane315STARX

Life is so complicated isn't it.I do think health is always a priority over most things.As whether it's Physical or mental health,without either we have nothing.We need support when either are failing.All of our lives will be touched be someone with bad health including ourselves and dealing with constant changes and consequences

durhamjaide2001

I am home and my new couch has arrived

Jane315STARX

Fantastic.Welcome home.What colour is your couch?

durhamjaide2001

bright pink and thank you

Jane315STARX

Lovely.Enjoy being home

durhamjaide2001

thank you

xodza

hello hope everyone is doing well bit. Rainy here not too bad as a morning pain at reasonable point.

Jane315STARX

@xodza good morning to you.Its nots raining here yet but I imagine it will soon.The sun is out though.Have a lovely day x

Santosha12

It's really lovely to see you back @Jane315STARX . I'm so very sorry your son is so troubled, I'm glad that you've got CAMHs involved and really hope they can help. I'm sorry I've not replied until now, just recovering from Covid again but have been thinking of you.

Jane315STARX

Hi @Santosha12 hope you are recovering well.Thank you for this lovely message.X.It definitely helps to know that there is a place we all have if we need to share things.

Santosha12

Thank you @Jane315STARX I am, it's weird it's the first day I've woke up today without a high temperature; it only lasted c 6 days (despite a lot of paracetamol) compared to 2 to 3 weeks when I've had it before. Very relieved! And glad to be back on here.

Glad to see you're out of hospital @durhamjaide2001 and that you've got a pink settee, I hope you're recovering well and that your blood sugar remains stable.