Refused pip

starbuck
starbuck Online Community Member Posts: 196 Empowering

I'm so despondent right now. I got turned down for pip today. I didn't score any points. I've had arthritis since my early twenties and now I'm 58 and it's in my hips and fingers as well.

My sister nagged me to apply and now I wish I hadn't bothered. I put on the form that I also have ocd and anxiety and that I find it difficult to talk to people on the phone and in person. The problem is I get so nervous speaking to people that I overshare and talk far too much. The interviewer on the phone saw this as me being able to converse easily with people. He also noted that I didn't need anyone with me for the phone interview - this again is a symptom of my anxiety. I have to be completely alone if I do have to make a phone call as anyone else there distracts me and I cannot think straight.

I told them I have trouble managing my pills because my fingers are painful so I have to get my family to put my pills together each day. I said I have to have help with cooking as I cannot manage to lift heavy pans and I often drop and smash crockery. I told them peeling vegetables is hard because I have nodules on my fingers from the arthritis which keep getting caught by knives and peelers.

They said I can walk 200m so I don't get any points for mobility. I had said I have to use a crutch to walk around, and if I'm going to the shops I use a sholley as I can lean on that and I can't carry bags. I told them I use a rollator to take my husband's guide dog for a walk as it supports me better than a crutch and doesn't make my fingers hurt when I'm going for a long walk, and I can make regular stops with a sit-down on the seat.

I have to keep walking otherwise the pain in my back and hips gets much worse. Walking is hard work and painful but I can't do nothing. I feel like I'm being penalised for trying to keep active.

There were lots of other points too which they just dismissed. I guess I'm just having a big moan because I feel so low about the whole thing - it's as if I'm making up how much pain I'm in day and night.

How many of you have been turned down for pip and how did you deal with it?

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