My first trip as physically disabled

StarryEyed
StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 162 Empowering

Hi! I'm scared and excited that in two weeks from today I'll be going on my first trip since becoming physically disabled 2-1/2 years ago.

I've booked the hotel and train as well as a scooter. The hotel says I can take my scooter into my room. I'll take my own walker on the train, and they said to arrive half an hour early so they can help me on the train. I've bought a subscription to Strava, which shows street elevation, so that I can map out routes ahead of time that aren't too steep. I'll be going solo so that I can learn how to be self-sufficient when travelling alone or with others. I am hoping this trip will boost my self-esteem and self-confidence as a disabled person. Life has been so dreadfully serious and hard the last couple of years, so I'm hoping this trip will also bring some joy. I'd also like to share some joy on the forum as I've been so very grumpy so far.

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  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 15,197 Championing

    Hi @StarryEyed I think you are very brave going on your first trip on your own since becoming physically disabled. How scary and exciting for you.

    I hope you have a lovely time and any photos would be welcome so we can share your trip ( only if you are happy doing this).

    I have not noticed you being grumpy on the forum.

    Take care.

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 2,864 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists

    This sounds really exciting @StarryEyed! It sounds like you have got everything in place and have thought of everything so I really hope it goes well! Where are you going on your trip?

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 162 Empowering

    @Bluebell21 okay I'll post pics. I'd really like that because it'll feel like you guys are with me.

    @Mary_Scope yes I think I've got the booking all done. I'm going to Granada.

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 2,864 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists

    Very nice @StarryEyed!! I hope you have the best time! I look forward to seeing the photos like Bluebell said too fi you're happy and comfortable sharing them!πŸ˜„

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 162 Empowering

    Yes, @Mary_Scope I'm very comfortable sharing photos. I won't post any of me, though. Travelling has always been difficult for me because being in new places causes anxiety, even panic attacks, which cause me to get disoriented. I get so unravelled with this headset, as you can imagine. Now added to that is my physical disability. So it's a huge challenge. Oh, plus I've only ever travelled alone once in my life, about six years ago for a few days, about 2 hours from here. So it's going to be extremely stressful and for that reason I'm setting up frequent check-ins with friends and family. Having you guys on board too will be awesome. Just awesome. Yay! Triple yay! 😊 πŸ™πŸΌβ€οΈ

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 2,081 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I'm so excited for you @StarryEyed! I wish I was as brave as you. You'll have an amazing time and I can't wait to hear all about it 😁

  • StarryEyed
    StarryEyed Online Community Member Posts: 162 Empowering

    Thank you @Rachel_Scope . My world just keeps getting smaller and smaller over the years with my mental and physical illnesses. I want to break the downhill trend. We show courage when we face our fears, right? ☺️

  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 4,149 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Aww this is great news @StarryEyed. πŸ˜€ The hotel sound really nice and helpful and with everything in place ahead, I'm sure you'll have a lovely time exploring. I've been thinking of going away by myself later this year on a little solo trip so will be great to hear how you found it. I hope you have a great time!