Hi, my name is itsstillme! Feel alone and targeted since moving house

itsstillme

Hello,

I am new to this.

I’m here because it’s a lonely world out there and I’m fed up of being alone.

I moved house 4 years ago to something more suitable for me, unfortunately that move became the worst decision I could have possibly made.

I have been treated differently and targeted relentlessly because I have certain issues with my health.
I have lost faith in other people and wonder if there is any kindness left in humanity.

Is there anybody else out there that feels this way or is it just me?

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luvpink

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/144891/hi-my-name-is-itsstillme

Hi and welcome to the community.

I'm sorry your home move hasn't gone well.

The world can be a very lonely place, especially depending on our individual life experiences but there are a lot of good people who are compassionate and have humanity.

Str8ter

Hello itsstillme, what a lovely username it made me smile.

I have recently joined and I agree it can be a lonely world out there sometimes. But I don't class myself as lonely I love being alone. I really don't go out and have only recently started attending medical appointments because I became very unwell and my children were not happy. But I attend and want to be back at home yesterday; such a terrible feeling. I am so happy at home, I keep to myself (and my family of course).

What I find hard is socialising, I don't like crowds and I very rarely like speaking on the phone, all of it is very tiring. I don't like this tech world, people videoing everything for content, it makes me very nervous and anxious.

It doesn't matter if it is just you that feels that way, everyone is entitled to feel how they feel, you are entitled to feel how you feel. However, I am sure there are many that do feel the same and hopefully there will be others here within the online community that will reach out to you.

I am told to look out for usernames with 'Scope' included, and they will support you. You can ask them questions. If you spend some time going through the site and get use to how it operates, that will help you. I am still going through and learning, I get very tired so cannot be on here for long hours and will miss days, but so far it has been great for me. There's no pressure, just follow their rules and you'll be good. There are some 'quick links' on the right of your message. All the best and Welcome.👍️

Bluebell21

Hello @itsstillme welcome to the Community from me too. I hope you enjoy your time on the forum. Any questions just ask.

Moving house is very stressful and disappointing when in does not turn out as well as expected.

We are a friendly and supporting forum, so please have a look around and join in when you are ready.

Take care.

Santosha12

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/144891/hi-my-name-is-itsstillme

Hi @itsstillme, Firstly, a very warm welcome to you to the community.

I'm so sorry that your move has resulted in you being treated differently and targeted relentlessly.

It made me wonder what kind of living arrangements/situation you have and whether it is neighbours who are treating you like this. It is bound to make anyone feel unhappy and lonely. I hope you are safe and wondered what being targeted means. I wonder if there is anybody you can report this to and get help from as nobody should have to put up with others' interfering with your quiet enjoyment of where you live. We all deserve the peace of mind, and feeling of safety and security, that should come from our home.

Please don't feel you have to share more than you're comfortable to though, we're here for you and I hope you find it supportive to be here.

Do you have family or friends near to you? I moved home nearly four years ago. It was difficult to adapt, but for different reasons, but am where I need to be for my health and practicalities. You don't have to put up quietly with other people's nonsense towards you and I hope you can get help to deal with that whilst staying safe.

Thinking of you and sending you my very warmest wishes.

Rachel_Scope

Hi @itsstillme and welcome to the community 😊 I'm so sorry for how you're feeling right now and the harassment you're receiving. Have you contacted the police about it? You deserve to feel safe in your home.

I understand that sometimes it can feel very lonely but I really hope that our community can make you feel less alone. You can share as much or as little as you feel comfortable to. We have lots of different discussions going on in the Coffee Lounge. Do you have any pets? When I'm feeling a bit low I always go to our Pets Corner to look at the gorgeous animals!