think I'm bi

ry1990
ry1990 Community Member Posts: 1 Listener
in Relationships

Hi I'm honestly struggling I think I'm bi but don't know how to know what to do 😭

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  • ColonelBlink
    ColonelBlink Community Member Posts: 746 Pioneering

    Well the good news is that you have twice the field to play as most of us!

  • SmellyBin
    SmellyBin Community Member Posts: 496 Empowering

    Hi Ry, nice to meet you here. Struggling is part of life, so in that way there is nothing wrong with you. Perhaps if you explain a bit more or ask a specific question, people can perhaps help you? Go easy on yourself :)

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,314 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/145925/think-im-bi

    Hello @ry1990, A very warm welcome to you to the community.

    If you're struggling and need to speak to somebody there is the LGBT switchboard on 0800 0119 100 available from 1000 to 2200hrs who can help in discussing sexual and/or gender identity.

    If you are between the age of 13 to 24 there is also the lgb helpline.org they offer a live chat, text service with a one-to-one, trained advisor.

    I wish you all the very best and hope that you can find the right support that will help you so you don't need to struggle on your own. Sometimes, talking it through can really help. Take good care.

  • SwiftFox
    SwiftFox Community Member Posts: 1,117 Championing

    Well it's nothing to be ashamed of or afraid of, whatever gender you feel you are comfortable with, it's your own choice. Hope you find your way and Enjoy life.😊

  • cndyflss07
    cndyflss07 Community Member Posts: 1 Listener

    I am like you, its nothing to be embarrassed about take your time and if you feel confident enough maybe try a swingers club as a playground for learning theres always someone there to explore with and there not as seedy az people make out I dont know where you live but id highly recommend chameleons nr Birmingham, very friendly and the staff do not stand any nonsense so its safe if you dont feel comfy with this idea look on a forum explain your new to this and just see if someone would help you explore a little. But most of all take it slow find out what you like and dont like but also enjoy what your doing and dont be nervous we all started somewhere remember that.

  • WelshBlue
    WelshBlue Community Member Posts: 1,172 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1122332#Comment_1122332

    Hehehe …. or as my wife would say … greedy

    @ry1990 … go wherever your feelings/ attractions take you. If it feels right etc

    I noticed someone has posted a phone number, maybe better advice from dedicated staff you can speak to live

    Good luck in being you

  • WelshBlue
    WelshBlue Community Member Posts: 1,172 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1122332#Comment_1122332

    Hehehe …. or as my wife tells her friend … greedy

    @ry1990 … go wherever your feelings/ attractions take you. If it feels right etc

    I noticed someone has posted a phone number, maybe better advice from dedicated staff you can speak to live

    Good luck in being you

  • SmellyBin
    SmellyBin Community Member Posts: 496 Empowering

    What a lovely thing to say @WelshBlue 'Good luck in being you' 🩵

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