My life my choice

chris50

So I am a male who 50. I live alone and I am a crossdresser. It what makes me happy. I not a convincing one. Yes I go out to local bar dress up sometimes as I don't drink much. I was sacked from work for being a cd. I work in a bar as well. Not one I drink in now. I am who I am and I am happy being a crossdresser. My so called friends called me everything under the sun. I don't do any harm to anyone being a crossdresser

Bluebell21

Hi @chris50 if you are happy being a crossdresser and you harm no one doing this I see no problem.

Were you aware that if you went to work as a crossdresser this would mean you would be sacked from your job? Would you have been prepared to go home and change to keep your job or would you not want to work somewhere they would have this attitude?

Could you perhaps work in a crossdresser bar and meet others and make friends with people who have similar interests to you.

I would suggest your friends were not the kind of friends you would want if they were so critical of what makes you happy.

Take care.

luvpink

@chris50

Hi and a very warm welcome to the community.

ChrisR777

How can anyone be dismissed for dressing full time as woman? Our local hospital had a nurse who lived full time as a woman, and there was no question of dismissal.

If anyone accused them of wearing women's clothes, they told thieir accuser that they weren't women's clothes, they were their clothes; they possessed no others in their wardrobe.

chris50

Hi everyone thanks for comments means a lot. I was in work in my work uniform. I just think in this day of age . No one should judge anyone . I just find it shocking the way I am treated. Yes I go to bar and it's and LGBTQ bar. So bar staff don't care what I wear. . I will show them at pride weekend. I am bi and proud

Bluebell21

Just be yourself @chris50 I hope you enjoy the Pride weekend.

Take care.