Everybody wants me to be mad
"Everybody wants me to be mad about something, but they don't agree about what"
Heard this line in a song and it is 100% me. Does anyone else feel like this? Everyone seems mad at something all of the time and I just don't. I wouldn't even want to. I don't like how it feels. I just swing with the good and bad. It's all part of life and part of the journey.
I don't get mad or deep much at all.
"I just sit back and watch as public opinion swings and shifts."
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What song is this from?
I used to always be angry about something but I've learned to focus my energy into positive things and it's really helped me over the years.
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I'm always in a mood about summat or other.
Such as I've barely slept all week due to the extreme heat.
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It's called "20 seconds on Twitter", it's a little niche but fun
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Me neither but I'm not mad about it
I figure it can either impact my sleep or it can impact my sleep and my whole day feeling grumpy about it
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That's a catchy little song!
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I spent too many years angry at myself and the world. Very destructive
It took a while to get there, a lot of work from the NHS and myself and now if I can't change it, I don't stress about it
I know I'm very lucky, not everyone is able to be in that 'place'
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Maybe I'm not normal but I don't have any unexpressed anger either? I really don't get mad fullstop. I can't think of anything that would make me angry rant on Twitter or stomp around being rude to other people.
I just really don't get mad
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I also think the line about agreeing is a bit tongue in cheek, of course what makes us mad is individual. For example it's like a nod to the left vs the right, both sides are angry about completely different things and want us all to be equally angry about it.
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Meh, I deleted my Twitter account last year because of that.
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People have always been rude to me, why would you think they haven't? It just doesn't make me mad, they can think and do what they want, same as I can. It doesn't feel worth getting mad over or taking revenge on.
They're people, same as me, faults and all. There could be a million reasons for their rudeness or maybe they weren't rude at all. I could have taken it that way because of my own experiences and stuff. I don't know and never will and never wasted time trying to figure it out.
I remember at school my friends would always comment that nothing seemed to phase me, they'd try and provoke me and make me mad and honestly, nothing ever did.
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People have always been rude to me, why would you think they haven't? It just doesn't make me mad, they can think and do what they want, same as I can. It doesn't feel worth getting mad over or taking revenge on.
They're people, same as me, faults and all. There could be a million reasons for their rudeness or maybe they weren't rude at all. I could have taken it that way because of my own experiences and stuff. I don't know and never will and never wasted time trying to figure it out.
I remember at school my friends would always comment that nothing seemed to phase me, they'd try and provoke me and make me mad and honestly, nothing ever did.
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Sorry it double posted then when I try and edit I get a 503 error
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Did that make you mad? 😁
I wish I could be a calmer person internally. I do see red quickly but don't have the stature to back it up! So it generally doesn't leave my brain for fear of repercussions. But I often find my inner monologue starting to rant and having to actively stop it several times a day.
For me the biggest triggers are other people being inconsiderate or me feeling misunderstood. I think it's more frustration than anger, although I'm not sure I could define either perfectly.
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I don't get mad at day to day things really, it's more global injustices and politics that get me fired up!
But even then I find myself on the fence a lot. There are some things I'm really passionate about, especially when things unfair or unjust, but I'm pretty chilled too.
By the way @Mr_Shoes_Tied, I'm a huge fan of Ian McConnell! My 'alternative' teen plays his music a lot and I can't help but sing along. I just clocked your name too 😍😅
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I'm sorry you've ever been in a position of needing to be a whistleblower, that must have been difficult, I know I found it hard when I worked in a care home, it wasn't pleasant but some things are important.
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