Asexual and incontinent

NoShame

so I’m 50, i had sex a couple of times when i was 18 but it just didn’t feel right. Over the years I’ve realised it’s because I’m asexual. I do occasionally find women attractive but not sexually. I imagine I’d probably be ok with sex if i fell in love with someone. I imagine there are communities where i might meet someone similar but I’m just not into online communication. I also wear incontinence pads which would be an extra layer of awkward to deal with.

If there are any others with issues that get in the way of a love life I’d love to hear from you. I’m expecting to be lonely the rest of my days. Would be nice to hear a success story!