Oh help ! worried mum mode!!!

pink_mummy

Errrrr help! My almost 12 yr old girlie is starting big school, shes great now she has her elecrric wheelchair she is taking herself to and fro summer school and shes been out doing errands for me but whats too much? Can I give her too much independence ? I dont want her to feel I don't care no more than I want to smother her. Kitten has a condition that effects her muscles and bones. Im finding im worrying about EVERYTHING! Will she be bullied? Will she make proper friends? Will she fit in? Will people help her? I am having a major mum flap! Yet my 4 yr old is starting primary school and im going to start work and im quite looking forward to that yet everything about kitten sends me in to worry mode!!!
any advice and aupport is so greatfully received!
Thanks loads!