What are your New Years Eve plans?

Sam_Alumni

Are you a lover or a hater of New Years Eve? 



What are your plans this year? Myself, my husband and kids always go to our friend's house for dinner and party games and we will be doing the same this year.

What are you up to? Do you have New Years Eve traditions? 

EmmaFarrell

Hi @Sam_Scope I always feel New Years Eve can get overly hyped up!
I've struggled with my health the last few months so I'm going to be kind to myself this New Years and have a very nice relaxed evening in with my boyfriend and maybe order a takeaway and watch a film! 

Helsbels41

I am feeling like a bit of a sad sack compared to you lovely ladies. I will as always be at home. Probably in my pj's by 8 watching rubbish t.v lol.

Sam_Alumni

@Helsbels41 we go to our friend's because she understands my illness and it means if I have to go in pyjamas and snooze on her sofa, she understands and it means the rest of my family get out. 

Staying in is not sad at all! 

Helsbels41

I had to Sons that are ASD / Asper ones 19 the others 7. Its just a total nightmare from.start to finish & we always end up leaving 10 mins after we've arrived so i learnt long ago to choose my battles lol

Sam_Alumni

I think you are so right! You have to know what works for you and yours and go with it! 

Helsbels41

I'll be brutally honest. Most of the time we either just don't go or my husband takes our 12 year old son who doesn't have any issues and they take part in what ever it may be. 

Sam_Alumni

That sounds really tough to deal with as a family.

Helsbels41

Yeah it can be. I spend a lot of time feeling guilty as hell that my middle child gets to spend little or no time with me on a regular basis . But ... It is what it is & we middle along like everyone else . We do OK