Hi, my name is Motherearth! Mum to 3 wonderful boys, I have Fibromyalgia and suspected Chrohns.

Motherearth

Unfortunately, I am in a very bad marriage. His mental and emotional cruelty, and threats for a long time now, that if I leave....which he says he's not bothered about....I cannot take my two youngest boys (my eldest is at college ) . He tells me I will not cope and that I am an unfit mother. I'm pretty sure....he's not exactly tried to hide it....that he is either seeing or at least interested in someone else. I just want a peaceful life with my boys but he is going to continue to make my life hell for years to come. I'm heartbroken :-(  :-( ****

Alex

Hi @Motherearth

So sorry to hear what you're going through. That sounds awful. Have you contacted a charity like Refuge? Perhaps they can help you work out a plan. 

There's also some information about things you can do on their website.