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Hi, my name is stonetemple!

stonetemple
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Hi im a 34-year-old paraplegic who is sexually active. Ive found it difficult to find any adaptive equipment where id be in control during sexual intercourse. I find that having my female partners on top of me lacking in any leverage on my part. Ive tried sex pillows and swings. While the swing does provide some measure of control it lacks in stability and comfort. Im here to gather any information on sexual adaptive equipment for paraplegics. I came across this site hoping to find some answeres. I would love to learn if theres anything in the works and would volunteer to test products as i feel this is a beautiful part of life that we all deserve to share with our partners. If anyone has any information id be ever in you debt if you could send me any information
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Hi @stonetemple, and welcome! I've directed your query towards our sex and relationships expert who may be able to assist you further with this.
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Hello @stonetemple - I'm teaching all day today but I've got some people I can ask for links. I've seen bits and bobs along the way...leave it with me! Gill- Gill
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