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Hi @paula_artist
It's good to have this chance to talk to you again!
It was me who responded to your previous message elsewhere on the community, where I suggested seeing if the charity REMAP could design and make you a personalised adaption to help you be push the pram
http://www.remap.org.uk/
I also suggested that it might be worth going onto the website community of 'Disability, Pregnancy & Parenthood'
https://www.disabledparent.org.uk/
to see if any of their community members had found a solution to this difficulty.
Now that you have arrived here at my 'Ask an OT' section of the Scope Community I have had opportunity to research your query further. So I looked at ways for you to be able to push a pram without using your arms, thus avoiding the difficulty of the spasms in your arms jerking the pram about. I have found this product, which would enable you to push the pram with your body
http://www.healthchecksystems.com/stroll_smart_jogging_stroller_adaptor.htm
Hopefully it might be a potential solution for you, but if you don't think it would be the correct solution for you, perhaps you could at least show the product website to the inventers at REMAP to get them thinking what improvements to the idea they could make.
I'd be interested to hear how you get on,
Best Wishes
Jean
In the past I have had to rely on my carers to have vehicles to take me out as I live in a very rural area with no regular bus routes. Only recently have I had a wheel car accessibly vehicle, which does mean I can go out if needs be. This is a problem in the evenings if I want to go out and socialise as I mainly have to rely on my parents to take me which is not always convenient.
On a personal basis I am feeling very low and depressed about the whole situation as I don’t feel I am getting anywhere. If I had my own home I know I would be able to live my life as I want to and not have to blend in with other peoples lives. I feel that my friends are all moving on in life and I am stuck in a rut I can not get out of. I appreciate I will still have to have care and assistance in my life but at least it will be on my own terms.
The hope you can open up discussions regarding the fact young adults like myself do not have many options when it comes to supportive living accommodation. There seems to be plenty of places to live if you are over 55, have learning difficulties or mental health issues but none for physical disabled people in Carmarthenshire, Wales.
Help me?
Hi Nicola
Thanks for getting in touch.
Have you been able to speak to your parents about your desire to live more independently? If so are they supportive of what you want to achieve?
Normally the starting point for making the transition towards independent living is having an assessment of your care need done by the local authority which covers the area in which you live.
In the current economic climate most local authorities are very careful about how they spend their social care budget. Obviously it is cheaper for the local authority having you live at home with your parents providing care, then it would be if you had your own place with professional care. Therefore, I suspect that it is unlikely that the local authority will be very motivated to seek out opportunities for you to live more independently if they think that you and your parents are happy to continue with the current arrangement.
However, your parents are under no obligation to continue providing you with care or housing so if they were to inform the local authority of that decision the urgency for the local authority to put alternatives in place would increase.
Scope is committed to campaigning for disabled people to have improved opportunities for self determination, see our vision statement: https://www.scope.org.uk/About-Us/Vision
You may also wish to make contact with Disability Wales, they lobby for the rights of disabled people in Wales: http://www.disabilitywales.org/about/
I'm concerned about your emotional well-being. It must be difficult feeling that others are moving on whilst you are encountering barriers to achieving the things you aspire to do. Please do try to find opportunities to talk about these feelings. I'm sure that other members of this on-line community will be able to relate to how you feel. Do you think there would be any value in talking to your GP about how you are feeling emotionally? Your GP may be able to arrange some support for you and, at the very least, having how you are feeling documented in your medical records may help provide evidence for why addressing your housing needs should be a priority for the local authority.
Also are you aware of Ataxia UK ? They are a source of specialist help and advice for people with Ataxia https://www.ataxia.org.uk/
Do keep in touch and let us know how you are getting on
AndrewAddis said: hi Jean did you read my post thanks
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