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Free dating sites
Sholay09
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Hello I just wanted to ask whether if there were any completely free dating sites as I believe there has got to be free ones out there?
S.York
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And if you are interested in local it is necessary to search on local sites,but there are many fakes
I have also tried 4 paid for sites with very little success, even one that was exclusively aimed at the disabled. I have memory issues at the moment and cannot remember the name but it seemed to have a number of ladies not real and of the others almost every contact I made were looking for someone to look after them. Those that contacted me were looking for someone to look after. Neither of these options was appropriate for me.
Generally being disabled is extremely limiting for finding a real relationship.
TK
An excellent site which is slowly growing into a pretty large site, with brilliant features such as a forum divided into all sorts of sections, which anyone can read and you don't have to pay to contribute to. Best of all though is that once you join you can communicate with anyone for free.
I've made a number of good friends through the site as well as a number of enjoyable dates so, all the best if you give it a go.
For anyone looking for anykind of relationship or Love on the Internet, remember be mindful of what your doing, and be very careful in giving any personal details.
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I wasn't very impressed with that site, either, so I deleted my profile.
Any ideas where the best site for a lesbian with disabilities is. I've done plenty of fish and was bombarded with women who just want sex and nothing more. I even had to resort 2 to the police beach's they wanted to me have a threesome with them and their daughters. Sick!!!!
I don't want to be bombarded by men who think they can change me I'm 48 and my life is limited so don't get out to meet anyone. I've been alone 8 years and it's time for me to meet Miss right lol.
Thanks all
Tracy
As much as I would like to go on dates at times I distrust dating sites generally as on most of them being disabled makes a person a pariah. I have had some attraction locally, despite my problems, and then I at least know what the person looks like, how they behave and have some idea what they are looking for. I still do not think there is a better way.
The biggest problem with dating sites that I have found is that the majority of men claim to be single (when some aren't) and are really looking for sex and that most women are suspicious of exactly that.
TK
There is nothing inherently wrong with living alone although it can make MH issues worse and people are so brainwashed into thinking they MUST have someone in their life. Online and f2f friends are usually a much better option for most of us because connections also bring complications with them.
Physical connections have alternatives although most people are against such things for one reason or another but although they can still bring complications and risks are, at least, available. Even friendships bring along complications though. I feel really sorry for youngsters who have had no chance to experience such things but I would like to point out that very few relationships now last very long now and sometimes it is easier to miss out on the bad times by missing out the fewer good ones.
It is said that "it is better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all" but I disagree. My life has been filled with many more bad times than good despite being honest, loyal and giving by nature. More often this has just led to myself being taken advantage of. Please remember one very important point though. There is much more physical and emotional abuse in relationships involving the disabled than in relationships involving healthy people. Why this should be I do not know but it is unfortunately true and have met a few disabled ladies who have known nothing but abuse in their relationships. The whole idea of relationships can be a minefield for the disabled.
In a way I am lucky in that I have 3 grown children that I love dearly but who have disappointed me in so many ways. They give me less support or even interest than I gave to my mother when I was already disabled and she healthy. Real love is hard to find and for myself that was only once and that caused me as much grief as all my other relationships put together. My love was not returned and this is far more common than people like to believe.
Now I deliberately restrict my connections to friendships and even that doesn't always work out due to the brainwashing of others and nonacceptance of refusal.
Sometimes I wish I could pass on my experiences in an emotional capacity rather than written. It might just explain things better.
TK
I've known four people meet long term partners on dating sites. Maybe its a matter of luck. One used Plenty More Fish and another answered an ad in the personal column of a local newspaper.
Becky
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MySinglefriend.com
DatingDirect.com
MuddyMatches.co.uk
there are some more sites you can check them over here https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/the-20-best-online-dating-websites/
All these are websites, in case you meant for Mobile apps. There are many options for that too:
Bumble
Tinder
Coffee Meets Bagel
Few more you can check them here https://www.theabsolutedater.com/best-hook-up-apps/
Good luck to those who do find someone because you’ll have better luck than me haha *sob*
Plenty of fakes.
But all dating sites the same
Free or pay for.!
Same people on all sites,just different profile names!
Anybody else seem to feel like it's that way?
I know sites need to make money, but,surely disabled dating site's,or any site's, could survive with advertising, rather than charging fees to vulnerable people ?
Just my opinion!
Nothing changed!
Still loooking on dating sites!
Guessing undateable!
Tall,handsome, *yeah right*,athletic,lol,:) Hahaha:)
I was,actually joking!
My apologies, just my stupid sense of humor!
That would be brilliant!
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I do laugh at my Facebook I have over 2000 people on it lol 😆
Just as an update, "Freedating"site,and "completelyfree",dating sites,both hhhhmmmm.... in my opinion! Been on them for years! The old adage,"you get what you pay for",springs to mind! Lol
And i dont use Facebook, or messanger,so no chance of using those as an option! Lol
Thats not only giving personal,medical information, but also putting extra obstacles in the way of dating and creating a victimisation of who is vaccinated and who is not.
"Buy" things to send to other people!
Not free site!
Looked at sayditto,another rip off!
Only two totally free uk sites,but,both have same people and same scammers on them for years,just different profile names,lol. But same pics! Lol
Just a suggestion, mentioned it before,but Scope a great site,woukd be good if could incorporate a dating thread/post.
Yes,i know, safety of members is paramount! I totally agree!
Just seems like a wasted opportunity for people in the same/and ,or,similar,situation to be able to connect and maybe find friendship or more!
But guessing if people want to connect, they they can PM each other on here.
Every time i try to register, it wont accept I am a MALE.
Maybe i should........naah,......whatever!
Not free site!
- Free to send messages
- Free to receive messages
- Free to send friend requests
- Free to receive friend requests
- Free to send comments on someone's profile, status and images
- Free to reply to comments
- Free to search users by their username
- Free to browse people and filter the results by a 5, 10 or 20 mile radius, city, age and sex,
- Free to like or dislike people on the swiping to hopefully get matches
- Free to see which people you've matched with on the swiping
- Free to see who your matches are and visit their profile
Now what isn't free?The problem with creating a dating thread or category on this scope forum, is that people will stalk people online before they meet them in person. On dating websites people are reluctant to share personal information about themselves with potential partners and dates, so people would not feel comfortable knowing that a person they're going on a date with has read sensitive information about them on this forum.
And actually aimed at younger people! .
Free,to me,means,free! No underhanded options to :upgrade to get to actually message, or chat with other people!
FREE,means FREE!
What is Free?
The word "free" , is the common denominator!
It means,. ...
:free:
Do you still wish to potentially libel Google publicly by asserting they demote websites in their search results simply on the back of poor reviews? It doesn’t appear to be accurate.
It makes people not want to be on here and causes people stress and anxiety I thought it was suposed to be a friendly supportive community ???
2) I didn’t defame or libel anyone
3) Accusing someone of defamation or libel is a SERIOUS allegation. I am
entitled to defend myself against accusations of this.
4 I provided a source to backup my claim
5) I can provide additional sources if you want.
6) I did not make the assertion about google search out of thin air.
7) Ad absurdium is a logical
fallacy which serves as a distraction to derail the topic and avoid dealing with opposing arguments . To make arguments which are absurd, exaggerate and conflate 2 unrelated things to ask if we can all break the forum rules because you think libel or defamation is allowed to tolerated on this forum, is a flawed and absurd argument, most likely dishonest, because it can be reasonably proven that I did not intentionally or inadvertently commit libel or slander - even after I provided a source. You have misrepresented rationality and civil order to make such an argument.
2 again) I didn’t defame or libel anyone
2 - Nobody said you did. Perhaps read what’s on the page rather than what you think is on the page. A question was posted rather than an assertion. I posted the links to refute your assertion. Feel free to refute them with evidence of equal weight.
3 - As above.
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Hey,everyone has an opinion!
Nobody is infallible!
But,maybe no right or wrong?
Maybe agree to disagree? Talking is easy!
But still manage to help and support each other!
Just my opinion!
As everyone says we can have opinions but can't put opinions as fact which is right
But if there are all these breaches why aren't scope moderators intervening in the breaches
This is why I said it doesn't always feel like a welcoming forum if people keep disagreeing why can't we just report what we think is wrong and move on instead of carrying it on so everything escalates
Firstly, Scope have become obsessed with tone over content. You’ll get a warning far quicker for sharp tone than you ever will for positing opinion as fact and yet the thing they’re most proactive on is the weakest element of their terns and conditions.
Secondly, things escalate precisely because moderators don’t step in and remove people from threads.
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As has been said already, us moderators are human and with competing workload priorities, can miss situations requiring our attention. Therefore, your reports are vital to us keeping the community a safe, friendly space and we thank each of you who takes the time to send them in.
Returning to the OP: does anyone else have suggestions for free dating sites? I met my husband in the good old days of AOL chat – does anyone remember that? Ha!
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So,back on track?
Original poster, asked about "completely free" dating sites.
A lot of sites say free,but its "free" to set up an account, but have to pay to actually send messages, or contact anyone!
As for good or bad sites!
That depends upon an individual person's point of view,or "opinion"!
Everyone is entitled to an opinion!
It might not be the same opinion as another person, but its still a valid opinion, an opinion,based on each individual person's opinion, and experience of any idea ,or experience, is a "personal " opinion,which,every person,in a democratic society is entitled too,even on a forum,based of personal choice, and experiences!
"Personally", it seems all dating sites are ****,because i have never met anyone, but,other people have,so different "personal" opinions,because, other people have!
But its just my personal "opinion",which,i am entitled too,just as anyone else is!
Actually had an update email today,from a "free" site!
Hhhmmmm....
So,.......baby boomers, but looking for guys 30 plus! Same people,same photos, but different profile!
Get a life! Lol
Not "free"
Ads cookies! To "partners,other advertising sites"! Omg! Might as well just give your driving license of passport, oops,that's the latest stuff to give the NHS app! Lol
Free to "browse" once you sacrifice your data,and sacrifice everything!
Hhhhmmmm,....might be safer,and easier to just sit on a park bench, with a big notice,saying "free to a good home,house trained",well.......almost..! Lol