Username_removed said: The 20% was a Maria Miller quote. The UC thing came out after IDS stepped down.
Waylay said: @Username_removed and @feir I'm interested in what you both mentioned about getting diagnosed late and dealing with things, including self-care and validity issues. I'm going through the same thing. 43 and finally being diagnosed with C-PTSD (instead of BPD, in addition to, not sure) right now. I neglect myself terribly, and still don't feel that I'm a valid person, with valid problems, although that's been improving, slowly. I'm dealing with a lot of heavy **** with my counsellor, but have a lot more to do. My PIP experience is basically another trauma, and I've gotten a lot worse.... If you have any tips from your experiences, I'd very much appreciate it if you let me know. Books, methods, whatever.