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Anyone else had ESA say they need to send someone out?
I live in a house share with a friend (opposite sex) of mine, and we both get ESA and PIP
ESA stopped paying her at the end of May, and when we called to ask why they've said that only one of us is allowed to claim ESA, and they've said we have to prove that we're not a couple, and that they need to send someone out to our house to check?
I feel like this wouldn't be an issue if we were both the same sex... and also we've been living together for over 2 years now and they've only just decided it's an issue?
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