Same sex carers

crochet1
crochet1 Online Community Member Posts: 3 Listener
my son is 21 has two male carers and one female Carer as he has got older he now told us he just wants male carers Become more difficult as wont wee etc when she is here 
Told I can get done for sex discrimination if we don’t use her anymore Surely he has the right choose who cares for him 

Comments

  • Markmywords
    Markmywords Online Community Member Posts: 416 Empowering
    There is an exemption for such circumstances so don't be concerned.

  • crochet1
    crochet1 Online Community Member Posts: 3 Listener
    Thank you thank you that’s was really helpful 
  • debbiedo49
    debbiedo49 Online Community Member Posts: 2,890 Championing
    Formerly I was a carer and I agree with you. As a female I would feel better that any client choose their carers dependent on their wishes and also I think I would feel more vulnerable supporting male clients with personal care. That works both ways
  • crochet1
    crochet1 Online Community Member Posts: 3 Listener
    Son had same Carer for a long time on and off but being 21 now he has said wants male carers Difficult situation Don’t want to upset her but I have to listen to his whishes It is his rights to 
  • easy
    easy Scope Member Posts: 689 Empowering
    I am sure she will understand if you explain the situation nicely to her. After all she is a carer.