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wyrdsister said: I also had this problem and I ended up selling my house for less than I paid for it and having to move myself (I’m disabled) and my son (who has ASD) in with my 72 year old mum who then had to take out a mortgage in her property to help me pay off what was left from the sale of my home. Then I lost my DLA and I had to put in an appeal to get it back which took nearly a year I got the PIP award 2days before I was due to go to court but in that year we had to sell my mums adapted bungalow and move into a house that has to be adapted for both our needs leaving us yet again struggling with money. We have had to put our food shopping on credit cards just to eat and now to top it all I have to go for a health assessment for ESA which I actually have a letter from them saying I was in the support group for life (so didn’t have to keep going to sign on etc as I’m classed as too disabled to work). Now I’m worried sick that they are going to stop my money again and tell me I have to go out to work (nobody will employ me even the DSS themselves told me I was medically unfit to work for them intact it was that doctor who put me on incapacity benefit for life) life is hard for disabled people who have to live of benefits as the government just seem to kick us all off any kind in money help that we get at my PIP medical the girl even told me that and I quote “YOU CANT EXPECT THE GOVERNMENT TO KEEP YOU LOT FOR LIFE” if I was depressed before that I really was after I just wanted to drive my car (before they took it back) into a brick wall. And just to top it all my mum who is my main carer has had to have the first in a series of operations so we are now struggling even more. I even asked social care for some help with my son only to be told that they don’t provide the help I’m looking for. Life is hard but we have to cope with our disability’s as well as everyday problems and people seem to forget that. Thank you for reading my rant it has helped me a little to get how I feel off my chest as they say ??
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