Christmas Parties

Antonia_Alumni
Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
edited December 2018 in Coffee lounge
Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences with us about Christmas shopping yesterday. 

Today we would like know, how you feel about Christmas parties.

Whether it's with family, friends or colleagues, what has been your experience so far?

What do you like or dislike about Christmas parties?

Will you be attending any this year?


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  • mumjac
    mumjac Online Community Member Posts: 19 Connected
    I'm going away , i refuse to let this illness get the better of me , its better than being on me own 
  • Antonia_Alumni
    Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
    Hi @mumjac

    That's the spirit!! I hope you have a lovely holiday. :) 
  • debbiedo49
    debbiedo49 Online Community Member Posts: 2,890 Championing
    @mumjac any space in your case for me lol? Happy Holidays!
  • ChrissyDavies
    ChrissyDavies Online Community Member Posts: 9 Connected
    Yes and me please.
  • Antonia_Alumni
    Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
  • ChrissyDavies
    ChrissyDavies Online Community Member Posts: 9 Connected
    Hi, I'm new to all this.
  • dinkydonna4118
    dinkydonna4118 Online Community Member Posts: 5 Listener
    Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences with us about Christmas shopping yesterday. 

    Today we would like know, how you feel about Christmas parties.

    Whether it's with family, friends or colleagues, what has been your experience so far?

    What do you like or dislike about Christmas parties?

    Will you be attending any this year?



  • dinkydonna4118
    dinkydonna4118 Online Community Member Posts: 5 Listener
    Types I dread them x
  • ChrissyDavies
    ChrissyDavies Online Community Member Posts: 9 Connected
    Me too.
  • Antonia_Alumni
    Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
    Hi @ChrissyDavies

    A warm welcome to the community.

    What do you dislike the most about it?
  • Antonia_Alumni
    Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
    Hi @dinkydonna4118

    Thank you for sharing, would you mind sharing why, please?
  • debbiedo49
    debbiedo49 Online Community Member Posts: 2,890 Championing
    I have avoided parties like the plague for years due to my m h issues. I'm not comfortable in places around people where I can't predict what's going to happen. I need to have get out plans in advance to consider any social event. On the day it will still depend on how I feel and I find that some people do not understand or accept that. Past 8 years at christmas I've preferred to be at home by myself or with my son. I've sent him to family get togethers without me so he can have the good times regardless. Things have been difficult with friends and family since my mum passed away, then my m h declined and family just used to end up either arguing or avoiding each other. Friends just kept expecting me to try harder and get better. Then fell away. Now, I chose to do what feels best for me. More so this year as my dad passed away in May. No parties for me for sure.
  • ChrissyDavies
    ChrissyDavies Online Community Member Posts: 9 Connected
    I hear what you are saying, I feel some of that too. I hate the drama and the arguments usually caused by alcohol, as I don't drink I don't have much tolerance for those that do and act up.
  • Antonia_Alumni
    Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
    Hi @debbiedo49

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. I am so sorry to hear about your parents, please accept my condolences. I understand, I am happy to hear you made the decision to do what is best for you.  We are all here to support you if you need someone to talk to. I know it may not be easy but I hope you and your son have a lovely festive season.
  • Antonia_Alumni
    Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
    Hi @ChrissyDavies

    Thank you for sharing this. Yes, it's definitely not a nice space to be in. It is exhausting.
  • debbiedo49
    debbiedo49 Online Community Member Posts: 2,890 Championing
    Thank you Merry Christmas 
  • ChrissyDavies
    ChrissyDavies Online Community Member Posts: 9 Connected
    You too. 
  • Antonia_Alumni
    Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
    Hi @debbiedo49

    You're welcome and thank you :)

    I hope your Christmas went well.
  • Antonia_Alumni
    Antonia_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 1,764 Pioneering
    Hi @ChrissyDavies

    Thank you :)
     I hope your Christmas went well.
  • debbiedo49
    debbiedo49 Online Community Member Posts: 2,890 Championing
    Thank you it was fine x