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Entitled to Universal Credit? Anything else?
I am asking here about a friend’s daughter. The parents are well educated and can work their way round the bureaucratic system but they have, to my knowledge, never encouraged their daughter to use the social security net and completely support her.
The parents are now in their 70s and are naturally worried how their daughter will cope if they become too frail to support her and then, inevitably, there will be their death. Recent conversations with them have broached the subject and I want to give them the best advice I can about what support may be available to Sophie now.
Her situation is this. She is autistic, anorexic, dominated by OCD and subjected to intrusive thoughts for about 60% of the time. Highly intelligent with a degree and a master’s degree from a Russell Group university, she is not able to work to support herself. Travelling by bus, she does part time clerical work on a voluntary basis at a charity advice centre but her OCD rituals, which are getting worse, means she is often not able to leave the house and I fear that the voluntary work might soon end. Her world, which already has narrow horizons, is closing in.
The parents cannot go away from home for more than a few hours at a time and Sophie is overwhelmed with anxiety if she is away from home for more than a couple of days so holidays, taken together, are impossible. At present one parent goes on holiday while the other stays at home.
I am not very familiar with the benefits system but want to tell them what help might be available before, and if, they see a benefits advisor. To my knowledge Sophie is about 40 and has no assets of her own. On her parents’ death she could get a sizeable inheritance. Your advice would be gratefully appreciated.