Let's talk about loneliness

Richard_Scope

kenny said:

Having friends is something most disabled people long for, I have cerebral palsy, am wheelchair bound, yes I know people who might have a chat, or see people in the gym and at football matches, but I feel a longing for a friend, a mate to go to the pub with, I have even advertised for one in desperation! When I have managed to form some sort of friendship, the person has always drifted away, who wants to be lumbered with a wheelchair, not many, I rely on my parents a lot, and as I am 34, it's not ideal, but parents will do anything for me. Friends I had as a youngster have all gone on to marry, have kids, got employment, got girlfriends, all the things that I cannot do, I feel as though life has left me behind, in a time warp, people say join local clubs, but where are these clubs and meeting, I've never found any yet

Hi @kenny
I'm sure we have spoken before. I live with quadriplegic CP and use a wheelchair. I have experienced a little of what you have mentioned when I was a teenager but I'm at the point now where if you don't like who or what I am then jog on. It does take a while to get to that point. I would love to talk with you.
Drop me an email.

debbiedo49

@Adrian_Scope I have thought about it but I don’t think I could do it on my own. 
Its something to think about. 
Even an online support group would be good. I’m on Instagram and follow lots of fibro folks 
thanks

pollyanna1052

Hi in our area we have a body called Staying Well.....this is for people over 60, both disabled and abled. We get together twice a month and have talks, singers, games and there is a real sense of community. Check out your area if this is of interest to you.

We also have another body called Able/Disabled group. Not a member myself, but I dont think there is an age group. Check it out