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CP and housing
janang
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Hi to you all, my son 23 has mild CP and was diagnosed at 2 years. He has spastic diplegia and also a learning disability. His symptoms include poor memory, reading and writing difficulties among a multitude of others.
His dad and I have fought tirelessly with the education system and now the work place for fair chances in life. He worked for premier inn for 4 years and now in Tescos cafe but it has been extremely difficult for him to get over the discrimination people show and has led to depression and anxiety.
He met his partner 4 years ago and she supports him brilliantly and they rent a studio flat which is not adequate for his needs. We are trying to very hard to appeal to the council for a ground floor flat but they will not budge on their decision. Any ideas would be helpful.
thank you
His dad and I have fought tirelessly with the education system and now the work place for fair chances in life. He worked for premier inn for 4 years and now in Tescos cafe but it has been extremely difficult for him to get over the discrimination people show and has led to depression and anxiety.
He met his partner 4 years ago and she supports him brilliantly and they rent a studio flat which is not adequate for his needs. We are trying to very hard to appeal to the council for a ground floor flat but they will not budge on their decision. Any ideas would be helpful.
thank you
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I am sure have you spoken to your sons Doctor about housing. Often can be useful. A letter stating his condition and problems.
@Richard_Scope is our information officer on CP. Have tagged him in anything he can suggest, he will be in touch hopefully.
Hope that helps.
Please take care.
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Good to meet you. This can be a very frustrating experience. I went through it in my teens. I found somewhere in the private rental sector but as you know that isn't a great solution.
Have your son and his partner registered with the social landlords in their area? Getting an occupational therapist assessment is a good idea. This will help to show that his current property isn't suitable.
My colleague has included some good resources. I would also make his case to local councillors, MPs and local newspapers etc.
Please let me know how you all get on
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As to housing, he could widen the search if he includes a) Swap sites and advertising for exchanges, and b) Looking at the private rental sector. Mainly it is a bit dearer than what housing benefit would give him, but it is worth checking the figures.
In some areas there are many thousands on the waiting lists for secure-for-life social housing. The fact it is also higher standard and lower cost than normal tenancies makes it even more of a winning lottery ticket. (That security from being thrown out, no matter how many neighbours have had their lives made hell, is a downside for vulnerable people in social housing, if they are bullied by antisocial 'neighbours from hell'. In private housing, the landlord will be happy to evict an antisocial tenant, which makes the neighbours safer.)
A flat could be on the seventh floor, could be private or social, and could and be ideal because of course there would be a lift. A lift makes every floor a ground floor, and the higher ones have the best views!
Mind you, l have a puzzle for you.
Any lift, anywhere, including in hospitals, will be carefully labelled with an instruction not to use it in the event of fire. .......errr....right, but what alternative is there? Have you ever seen a little map showing the route to the stairs,? Have you ever, ever in your life, seen a notice telling wheelchair users and others where to go and what they should do?
Once, i asked in a public building. The response was "well, those cripples have people to go round with them, the council pays them, so they would carry them" Another public building, another answer..."those sorts of people, they get trained so they know where to go". Yet another public building......" they can just wait, we get everyone else out, then the fire brigade gets them".
Another, when asked if there was an evac chair, took half an hour to find the answer, which was that "we think Sandra used to know about it, but she left two years ago, and probably if the chair is still here it would be in the cleaner's cupboard, but only the cleaner has the key, and she only comes for an hour in the morning"
Another...My top favourite......."those wheelchairs people, they have it from when they are born, don't they? So they know different things, special things to do"...........Mmmm.... what things??? Presumably , those wheelchairs people grow up with the skills to make those wheelchairs leap in the air, crash through the nearest window, then sail gently to the ground by parachute........lf not that, then what?