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dating & aspergers

hi all, new to this forum and wanting advice please on how to help my 23 year old aspie son. He’s desperate to find someone to share his life with in his own way but neuro typical girls have only led to drama and heartbreak so far. I think he wd benefit from finding another aspie - but I don’t know where to start helping him. Any thoughts / suggestions? I don’t have the know how to set up my own aspiematch.com! TIA...
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Please can I advise have you spoken to the following may be able to give some guidance and support.
The National Autistic Society
Who also deal with Asperger's as well.
Helpline 020 7833 2299
Email [email protected]
I would also look at the MEET UP website as well. Local support groups and organisations that may be able to help.
One suggestion is to contact volunteer bureau in your local area. Being volunteering can help integrate meet so many people. You make friends and sometimes meet some one who likes you.
The volunteer bureau in your area would match him up with his skills, abilities and any talents he has. To any organisation. That need volunteers.
Could be an local charity that has disabled members of our community. It all depends what he wishes to do.
Even the local Autistic or Asperger's Branch near you.
You could contact SCOPE . Need volunteers.
By doing a variety of leisure activities, volunteering and anything he has an interest in to, can be beneficial to meeting people.
I have mental illness, disability did volunteering in mental health charities usually doing volunteering in Kitchens.
Please have a look around our website plenty of new friends and lots of advice, information .
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Please take care.
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I hope you manage to find some help for him, I have aspergers myself and I am a women who is 25, I have found that it helps building friendships first and then having them as potential partners if they feel the same way about you
I just want you to know that there is no need to worry
Before I knew I was autistic I was always drawn to the unique/different souls of the world and I feel this will happen naturally for your son when he meets the ' right ' person, they'l be absolutely besotted with him and his unique ways.
Good luck! and if you need any further advice or want to ask any further questions feel free
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