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Hi, my name is Delbasid!

Delbasid
Delbasid Member Posts: 9 Listener
Have been disabled for 22 years. Was divorced 2018, now live on my own. Most of my time is taken with voluntary work, I reckon loneness is a real issue.

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  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Community Co-Production Group Posts: 10,452 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @Delbasid - Welcome to the community. I'm going through a divorce at the moment, & live alone (unless you count my kitten)! Well the DWP did, as I received a letter saying I would only get half my winter fuel payment, as there was somebody else living here....how did they know about Shadow?
    It's great to read you do a lot of voluntary work. Is loneliness something that affects you, or those you help? Many here will identify if the former.
    Just to say I've found this a very friendly, caring & supportive place, with different people to chat too.
    Please say if you have any queries.
  • Delbasid
    Delbasid Member Posts: 9 Listener
    Hi there,
    with a name like shadow I’m sure he can keep a low profile. I reckon my problem is I really don’t socialise much any more.
  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Member Posts: 6,390 Disability Gamechanger
    Hello  @Delbasid   Pleased to meet you.

    Thank you for joining and sharing.

    I am one of the team of community champions. We guide, advise, help and support members.

    Understand you come to the right place for friendship, support and information.

    Please have a look a round our website. We are friendly, care and share.

    Plenty of members live on their own, I am one. Use this forum every day helps.

    Always some one here for a chat or need to talk about anything.

    Happy to be supportive, offer compassion, empathy.

    Please I hope you enjoy your time with the community

    Please take care.

    @thespiceman
    Community Champion
    SCOPE Volunteer Award Engaging Communities 2019
    Mental Health advice, guidance and information to all members
    Nutrition, Diet, Wellbeing, Addiction.
    Recipes
  • Delbasid
    Delbasid Member Posts: 9 Listener
    Thank you,
    it was a coincidence as I have just made a hot chilli when I saw your username and message. I will need to navigate a bit more.
    thank you.
  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Member Posts: 6,390 Disability Gamechanger
    Hello @Delbasid      Thank you for reply. If you go the page this one has a guide community one tells you about how to post.

    Our rules, guide lines.

    I am called the Recipe King, Italian Stallion of the Kitchen by some of the members.

    Always have lots of recipes on the forum have a look, happy to share and care.

    I never use Mince Chilli childhood. Use cubed Beef or Pork Shoulder or these ready made Meatballs Turkey Beef, or the Swedish one s that are cooked.

    Slow cooker use mixed beans tins, not Kidney. Use Couscous not Rice or use Quinoa. Or my one of my comforts . Mashed Potatoes or top on Baked Potatoes.

    Buy these ready made microwave . Top with Chilli when cooked.

    Always serve in a bowl topped with cheese like melting ones Mozzarella  or Gruyere.   You can buy already grated.

    Just some ideas for you.

    Please if I can help with any thing be a pleasure to help you.

    A lots of ideas, cheap eats budget ones.

    Please take care.

    @thespiceman
    Community Champion
    SCOPE Volunteer Award Engaging Communities 2019
    Mental Health advice, guidance and information to all members
    Nutrition, Diet, Wellbeing, Addiction.
    Recipes
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Community Co-Production Group Posts: 10,452 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @Delbasid - I see you've met my friend thespiceman. He's the gentleman of the forum (usually!). If you go close to the top of the page on the right-hand side, the link 'All groups' shows you the other parts of this community. I'll give you a quick link to the 'Coffee Lounge:' https://community.scope.org.uk/categories/coffee-lounge where we share our interests & hobbies + much more, including the spiceman's recipes; some more of which are here: https://community.scope.org.uk/categories/coffee-lounge/p2
    I hope you enjoy your chilli dish!


  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Testing team Posts: 8,074

    Scope community team

    Great to have you here @Delbasid. How are you doing today? Feel free to jump in and start chatting here on the community. Many of our members feel quite isolated, so hopefully you'll find plenty of support. :smile:
    Community Manager
    Scope

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  • Ails
    Ails Member Posts: 2,256 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @Delbasid and welcome to the Community.  How are you today?  It is nice to meet you and thank you for sharing with us.  What kind of voluntary word do you do?  Do you have any hobbies you enjoy doing?  Yes, loneliness can be awful and affects so many people today which is such a shame.  You will find the forum to be a great place for chat, support and friendship as there are lots of lovely people on here.  I hope you enjoy your time with us and look forward to seeing you around.  If there is anything we can help/support you with then please just let us know.  All the best.  :smile:
    Winner of the Scope New Volunteer Award 2019.   :)
  • Delbasid
    Delbasid Member Posts: 9 Listener
    Hi Ails, I voluntary drive, also help with phone friends. I don’t like going to puds much. I cook a lot and look after my two cats.

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