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How does one cope with the loss of a leg in later life?
An elderly friend is about to have a leg amputated following years of problems and is obviously concerned about carrying on afterwards, particularly regarding mobility and toileting. He feels that he would be unlikely to have a prosthetic fitted. Does anyone elderly have any experience of this sort of thing that they would like share?
Best wishes.
DLTBGYD
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Have they had chance to speak with an occupational therapist or physio about how they would manage afterwards? This type of rehabilitation is often given in hospital. It might be worth asking their doctor if this would happen.
I hope others are able to offer their experiences.
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If you have anymore questions I'm happy to try and help
Thank you for your prompt rely. He has diabetes and high risk for a heart attack or stroke. Worries about life expectancy and if it would be worthwhile having the operation and quality of life if he went ahead. He's in his seventies and not in a happy place at the moment.
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Hi, hope you dont mind me asking....do you get phantom pains? I`ve heard they can be really hard to cope with.
Best wishes xx
Best wishes.
DLTBGYD
That`s really sad. If the poor man is determined to do away with himself, then why go through the amputation and all it`s difficulties.
Do you believe he will do this or s he crying out for more help?
Either way, I do feel sorry for him....and you ....xx
Just wanted to see how you were at the moment? It can be really difficult when someone close to us is experiencing mental health issues. MIND have a some tips on how to support a friend with depression, as well as how to support yourself.
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He is seeing a psychologist or maybe psychiatrist plus is due to have another physical check-up next week. He's fixated in the belief that he only has 2-3 years left and just wants out of what he sees as a no-win situation. Will try to keep you up with developments.
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Thanks for your concerns Chloe. I've been quite unwell lately with my own problems that are taking a long time to resolve. The cold and rain and gales have kept me virtually housebound. Spring is not too far away though. My friend is receiving psychiatric help and has started to brighten up since his antidepressant dosage was increased. He still has the fixation regarding his life expectancy but we'll just have to wait and see how things pan out. Still hoping/praying for a good outcome for him.
Best wishes.
DLTBGYD
I'm really glad to hear things have improved slightly for your friend and that he is now receiving support. I wish you both the best and please do let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
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