Killer virus,The phone call we never want to come

gillian72
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just found out my cousin has been put to sleep. Drs have told us next 24 hours we will know if he makes it or not
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@gillian72
I am really sorry to hear this, we hope that your cousin will pull through. We are always here for you whenever you want to talk.0 -
@M Anthony thank you, it's breaking my heart his daughter trying to get in there to be with her dad ,and all these loved ones coping knowing they r nailed down in coffins out there an can't go an see them an say there goodbyes, all we can do is try an stay save to all of us ****0
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@gillian72 You and your family are doing the best you can in these circumstances. The important thing is that your family are supporting each other and while you may be isolated from him, he knows he is loved by all his family and daughter.0
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@M-Anthony , I'm feeling awful an guilty I fell out with all my family years ago so I have to live with that?,0
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The falling out will make things seem worse, but why not make some phonecalls and tell people you wish to forget what went on and start afresh.
If they don't respond, well at least you tried.
These times are so sad and there`s so much time to think about it.
Keep safe.
Pollsx
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Hey @gillian72 - I am so sorry to hear about your cousin. Very difficult times. Please keep us updated
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I am sorry to hear that, however with what pollyanna said maybe you consider trying to reconnect, you may have fallen out with your family but you all share your love for him it may be possible to move on.0
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Hi @gillian72. I'm sorry you're in such an awful situation.
I think what pollyanna1052 has suggested is a really good idea. It's never too late to reach out.0 -
So sorry to read about your cousin Gillian . Trying to reconnect with you family would be hard ....but I think they would appreciate you getting in touch to tell them how sad and how sorry you are to hear about your cousin . God bless ?0
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Oh no. You are in my prayers!0
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Thank you all 4 your kind messages, Drs were gonna take tube out today but he's had a heart attack, but in the night he's suffered a seizure, blood pressure still high an temperature rising ,I not sure atm if it's because of virus or if he has it , his daughter gonna keep me updated ?Xx0
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That is sad to hear, we are sure the doctors will do the best for him. We all hope he can get through this.0
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@M-Anthony ty,yes if it's not from cv he might have a chance maybe,?Xx0
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My thoughts are with you and your family @gillian72.0
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@Adrian_Scope, thank you Adrian , quick up date I don't think I should call it a bit of good news or not ,he dosent have cv but he's still In a coma atm ty all 4 ur kind messages xx0
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Thanks for updating us @gillian72. Hopefully you'll have better news soon.0
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@Adrian_Scope, thank you ?0
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Hi @gillian72 - just checking in how were things over the weekend with your cousin?
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@Abdi_Scope thank you for asking update is he had a brain scan over the weekend so that's good news , they took tube out yesterday to see if he could cope he came round he knew what his name was etc he. kept asking for his wife ,but no one is allowed in same rules as covid19 patients then last nite he had another seizure a had to put him in a coma again ,when he had heart attack they said he needs a angioplasty the next day but he had a seizura after his heart attack so not sure if they can do a cardiac stent ,while he's in coma ? I had. heart attack at 33 an had my angioplasty done but if I can remember they did my stent I was awake so it s worrying about his 2 seizures ???0
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Hi @gillian72 - the fact he was lucid when he had his tube out gives you some hope. It sounds like they are giving him good attention and I am sure they will do their best for him. What are you doing to try and distract yourself? I know being stuck at home right now makes it hard to mentally get away from thinking about the sad things. What do you do to give yourself a break?0
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