Confused

gemzya80

Hi all
My anxiety is going through the roof, was told yesterday a decision was being made that day and letter will be out, I couldn't sleep a wink so I decided to call them. I have been told my decision has  made but passed on to make sure the correct decision made by the the decision maker so its starting again .. gota wait again! Anyone else had this? Please help my mind and body is going through turmoil.. not sure if its worth it??

katho31

i am so sorry to hear of this  please dont give up, they shoul not have told you that a decision was being made then change things.  if i understand correctly, they said your decision has now been passed to another person, if so i think it may just be to do an overall check to finalise everything? again, dont give up hope, and try to take deep breaths and relax your mind as best you can. im awaiting an assessors decision and my hubby has been great and his advice is all of the above, it is so very hard i understand, best wishes and take care 

Chloe_Alumni

Sorry to hear @gemzya80, I imagine this has made things extremely difficult. Are you in lockdown with someone?

If you wanted to, you could request a copy of the report which would say what the assessor gave you, or if you prefer you could wait for the letter.

We have many members who have been through this process and appreciate how daunting it can be. 

Fingers crossed for you.