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I want a sexual relationship but am fearful

I am a young autistic woman who is very fearful of starting a new relationship, and progressing to a sexual relationship. I am fearful of pain during sex, and feeling like I am not in control. How could I feel confident to start this kind of relationship, and manage it?
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Also, here is an app that allows Autistic people to meet others who are in a similar situation.
You always have the option of saying no and it's okay to take things slowly and at your own pace when in a relationship.
I hope these resources are useful.
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A lot of it is about how your partner makes you feel and gives you the confidence to feel ready to move on to sexual relationship, starting off with affection and making you feel wanted.
Take it slow you don't have to go the whole way straight off just take little steps
Good luck I hope you find what you are looking for
Perhaps our @PSHEexpert might have some thoughts?
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Do you see our post about an online club night this Friday for people with learning difficulties? This might be a good way to meet someone new
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You may find the outsiders group on facebook useful this is a dating site for those with disabilities
We also have a section on relationships and dating which may give you some advice