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mikeymike
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hi all ( not easy for me to talk about this) well i know i am not the only one struggling with the lockdown and for me the loneliness is crippling me, my ptsd is getting worse so that is driving not only the depression but the pain levels from my crps. And lack of sleep compounded by very bad sinus problems no help from gp on that i have exhausted all avenues on that other than an operation which my gp has said is a waste of time.
further compounding my depression and for me this is a huge thing, i am in a housing association property ( sheltered housing though i dont need to be in that, but all that i could get moving from devon to london to get a bit closer to my daughter ) but i am still needing to be closer to my daughter for support both from the mental health situation and that she can help me get out about a bit more, i also now have to have my mobility scooter in the flat which is a dangerous trip hazard for me as i use a crutch to move around indoors, but alas despite letters from my physciatrist, psycologist and ot, the housing associations so called medical experts which these are passed onto refuse to accept that being closer to my daughter for mental health reasons or the scooter being a danger to me are grounds for me to be moved.
so to be honest with having to be stuck indoors alone which my specialists told me is the worst thing possible for me to do ( this was before the virus ) i am very slowly losing my mind. there are only so many things one can do before monotony sets in and my project of cleaning and catolouging my vast record collection is very expensive.
i do feel this is one of the many things the government has failed dismally on where is the support the help disabled people need at times like this.
sorry for the ramble keep safe and take care all.
further compounding my depression and for me this is a huge thing, i am in a housing association property ( sheltered housing though i dont need to be in that, but all that i could get moving from devon to london to get a bit closer to my daughter ) but i am still needing to be closer to my daughter for support both from the mental health situation and that she can help me get out about a bit more, i also now have to have my mobility scooter in the flat which is a dangerous trip hazard for me as i use a crutch to move around indoors, but alas despite letters from my physciatrist, psycologist and ot, the housing associations so called medical experts which these are passed onto refuse to accept that being closer to my daughter for mental health reasons or the scooter being a danger to me are grounds for me to be moved.
so to be honest with having to be stuck indoors alone which my specialists told me is the worst thing possible for me to do ( this was before the virus ) i am very slowly losing my mind. there are only so many things one can do before monotony sets in and my project of cleaning and catolouging my vast record collection is very expensive.
i do feel this is one of the many things the government has failed dismally on where is the support the help disabled people need at times like this.
sorry for the ramble keep safe and take care all.
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Thank you for posting so honestly about your feelings right now, I'm sorry to read you're struggling. This is such a hard time and loneliness is such a common problem for people at the moment. I would always suggest this community as an avenue to help with feeling lonely, and you can always give Scope's helpline a call for a chat.
Regarding your GP, it seems to me as though you aren't entirely happy with the support you are getting from them, so have you considered asking to be referred to a new GP? A fresh pair of eyes and ears might work better for you. It must feel awful feeling as though you can't rely on your GP for support when you need it.
I'm sorry to read about your housing situation, moving closer to your daughter would be great for you and it's a shame you aren't able to do that right now. Have you considered contacting Citizens Advice for support with this, or contacting your council? I'm not incredibly knowledgeable in that area, but hopefully other users will be along to advise.
You mentioned that you have a psychologist, that's good, I hope they are able to effectively support you to manage your mental health. Please remember that if you are ever feeling low you should contact them. If that's not possible, or if you want alternative support, you can always:
- Contact Samaritans any time on 116 123.
- Text Shout to 85258 to be put through to a trained volunteer.
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mike
Hang in there as you say, stay safe and I'm sure you'll get the support you deserve eventually.
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Sorry to hear you are struggling
There are some groups where you can get a buddy to talk to on the phone not sure what they are called tho
I tried to move closer to family when I became disabled for support but it seems other councils just dont want to take you on despite meeting local connections criteria and you end up only being able to stay in your current borough
mike
mike
I too am having problems with my local council regarding re-housing matters, there are 8 of us in a 3 bed. We are in band 1 and have 3 registered disabled kids but the council have left us to stew in a house too small for the last 3-4 years. This last year and this current year have become the worst I have ever had to deal with. The government are awful an made things worse for everybody except the rich and privileged, yeah I believe that too.
Just post on here if you need to talk, it better than staring at walls talking to yourself as I usually do.
Take care Marty
Please remember that if you ever want to talk to anybody about your mental health, you can contact Samaritans on 116 123 or text Shout to 85258 to be put through to a trained volunteer, those services are always there if you need a chat. You should also speak to your GP if you feel as though the current treatment and management you have in place isn't working for you.
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I am doing my best with what I have, hope that this weeks goes better than last. I have some people looking into things with me, so I will keep you posted.
Thanks Marty
take care
mike
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Regarding the telephone befriending schemes Jane mentioned, you can sign up through Age UK if you're aged over 60. Reenage offer one for those living in sheltered housing, which you could also look into. Sometimes these schemes are run from local hubs too, so it might be worth having a look online to see if there's a local group or charity who offer this service.
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Just wanted to check in to see how you are this weekend?
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but thanks for the concern
mike
I'm sorry to hear things still aren't great. As for your pain levels, are these being monitored regularly by your medical team? Along with the medication you are receiving? If you feel like it's severely impacting your day to day life it might be worth speaking with your GP again about options and/or a referral to a pain management clinic.
Just to give you an alternative to Citizens Advice, the Advice Local website is a great resource for finding help with housing problems. if you enter your post code and select housing from the drop down option, it will give you a list of nearby organisations who can offer independent advice. Likewise, Shelter have specialist housing advisors who you can speak to, and you can visit this contact webpage for further details.
I hope you have a better day and remember we are always about if you want some company and to chat.
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take care
mike
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