Morning, how's your day going so far?

SueHeath

Yep we miss them when we don't see them @Sandy_123 but always glad to get the house back - at least the sun will be back next week xx

66Mustang

Hello everybody

It's raining here today, quite heavy and for a few hours so far, definitely needed

Really sorry to hear about your cat @Amberpearl

It's really sad losing a pet

You are definitely not a murderer

SueHeath

Morning @66Mustang hope your well.
Been raining here since last night, the land so needs it - i don't mind as long as summers not gone ha ha xx

janer1967

So sorry @Amberpearl you are certainly not a murderer but a caring loving animal lover 

What you are doing is ending the pain and suffering for pippa and putting her at peace 

66Mustang

I agree @SueHeath

I'm not sure what the plan is for me today, I've been a bit bored the last few days as family have been working, I never ask to do anything, always wait until they suggest it as I feel enough of a burden as it is!!

Just having my 2nd cup of coffee at the moment

janer1967

Morning all you lovely people 

Not a lot on today gardener due it's not raining here but it has been 

Have a lovely day everyone 

Hope the xray goes OK @Teddybear12

SueHeath

Take it you haven't been up long @66Mustang i've already had four coffee's better change my drink now ha ha.
Haven't you found another hobby to do yet bab, or are you missing your games, are there any day centre's in your area you could join ? And I am so sure that you are NOT a burden on any of your family xx

66Mustang

Ha ha  @SueHeath I had a long gap between coffees 1 and 2  

I think I'd struggle to go to any sort of centre or club, I've been researching for a new computer though, still not sure what to get!!

Thanks for the kind words

Sandy_123

Its definately a raining day, not really forcast tho. The stray cat is in the shed, silly cat could stay here instead. I'm going to start my jobs then have a second coffee. I do actually love this weather. 

SueHeath

Have you got a couple in mind @66Mustang that you fancy ? If so why don't you start a new thread on here and see what others may think - like a pro's and con's list - just an idea xx

66Mustang

@SueHeath

I really have no idea  

There are so many components to choose from, like the processor and graphics card, then you need to make sure the power supply, cooling fans and motherboard are the correct ones for whatever you choose, it's quite confusing

Just need to do some more research I think

SueHeath

Ha ha you've lost me already @66Mustang x

Makes a change that we got the rain and not you @janer1967 ha ha but we so need it x

Sandy_123

I decided to try and make a coffee like Costa, the flower on the top was a, well, not a flower. Still tasty tho, lol.  Song of the day....rain drops keep falling on my head

Alex_Alumni

I'm so sorry to hear about Pippa @Amberpearl

Losing a pet is a very hard thing, and sometimes when we grieve we can feel very guilty. But I want to assure you what happened isn't your fault, you are not to blame and you are not a murderer.

You love your pets, and make sure they are care for as much as you can. What happened is sadly a natural thing. How old was she did you say, 14? That's a very good age for a cat. 

Take some time to reach out to loved ones for support and help this week, and to look after yourself. It can often feel like losing a family member, so if you need to ask the community for support, we're here for you.

Amberpearl

I'm still at the vets.  She's just gone
Yes  kidney failure 
She smells so bad  she had a smelly accident in the carrier 

I can't get the smell put if my nose
She looked so ill

I've nobody.  I have 3 daughters but not close by

Amberpearl

SueHeath said:

Your not a murderer @Amberpearl the vet wouldn't like doing this either - better then the poor mite suffering x

SueHeath said:

Your not a murderer @Amberpearl the vet wouldn't like doing this either - better then the poor mite suffering x

I feel so guilty.  Poor pippa. I've had her since 3 months old
It's heartbreaking 

Karen7788

I’m so sorry about Pippa @Amberpearl, you’ve given her a lovely life and now she’s at peace. 

Sandy_123

@Amberpearl I know its heartbreaking, I've been there, try and focus on your memories, it does help.  It was the right thing to do. No more suffering any more for pippa, she has gone over rainbow bridge.

Amberpearl

Just got in 
I'm. Getting a headache 
I feel numb and guilty 

SueHeath

Bless you @Amberpearl your suffering grief darling make sure you drink it will help your headache, you will have your thought tonight darling - you know were we are x