Morning, how's your day going so far?

Amberpearl

janer1967 said:

@Amberpearl you need to get a new friend the one you mention has very extreme views.  Next time ask her for facts and figures . 

@Ada constant pain is bound to get to you at times its draining and its natural reaction to take your pain out of those close to you . You also put up with your husbands lifestyle and deserve a 🥉 

Yes her veiws are very extreme 
She always send a me links to the dark side of what covid has done

Amberpearl

Morning all 

I feel quite depressed again 

Amberpearl

My online freind not helpful

Rained so much my porch is leaking 
Have a bucket in there 

Amberpearl

Sandy_123 said:

Gosh I'd change freinds seriously.

@sueheath yes at park, ignore me how can I 4get that it's a massive 1. 

I've never met her 

Amberpearl

SueHeath said:

Thought you were quiet @Ada, being in constant pain is no joke - i can be moody, snappy, forgetful, stressed about stupid things all brought on by my demon, luckily hubby understands and knows when to pamper me or hide in the shed ha ha. As Janer as said you put up with your partners demons, that's called love, 

I'm glad i'm not the only one in the group who feels the same about your so called "friend" @Amberpearl at the moment I think she's the toxic one, I know everyone has a right to their own thoughts and ideas but reallyyyyyyyyy
as Janer said ask for proper evidence or just don't talk about things like jabs with her. xx

I think she's mad but is never dare tell her 

She's very opinionated 
I, don't have anybody. My kids left home yrs ago 

I have my cats so I went on a fb cat forum and she message me offering advice 
Which to be honest was weird
She uses homeopathy fir herself and cats and gets angry if I say vet gave my cat meds or me so. I. No longer tell her 

I was really upset yesterday when she says the hospital murdered my dad 

He was 89 had copd diebetic heart disease an anerysum, arthritis and alzhemers 

I. Did my best to care for him
I. Stil miss him 

janer1967

@Amberpearl it seems like your friend has a very negative effect on you as it would most people 

Is the friendship worth how she makes you feel 

I would either tell her that while she is entitled to her views they are not what you believe and that you are feeling intimidated by her trying to influence your
Decisions so could she please stop or your going to stop communicating with her 

Or just block her 
 

Sandy_123

@Amberpearl I'm sorry but your dad that age and with all those illnesses going on and of course you miss him and did everything you could. She is not worth being a freind to you. 

@Teigr fingers crossed.

I'm having a cheeky hot  mince pie or 2 

Amberpearl

@janer1967 your right
Yes she's entitled to her opinion, but she should not push her veiws on me 
And every time I've said one of my daughters is sick like a tummy bug fir example, she's said it's because they have had covid vaccination s and they will die soon

I'm. Suffering really bad atm with the menopause too, have for 16 years, but it seems to be flaring up at the moment 

Amberpearl

Sandy_123 said:

@Amberpearl I'm sorry but your dad that age and with all those illnesses going on and of course you miss him and did everything you could. She is not worth being a freind to you. 

@Teigr fingers crossed.

I'm having a cheeky hot  mince pie or 2 

My dad was ill since age of 52.he had 4 heart attack s and many illnesses  guess I'm. Lucky he made 89

Teigr

It turns out our gas pipe is too small @Sandy_123,so I'm waiting to find out how much it's going to cost to get it replaced.

janer1967

@Amberpearl I'm sorry for your loss your dad made if to a good age 

I lost my dad 14 years ago and I still miss him 

It's taking a long time to go through the menopause for you bless 

I think you should look for new friends you don't need this so called friend 

@Sandy_123 enjoy your mince pies I don't like them so you don't need to share lol 😂 

Sandy_123

Lol they were nice Jane better hot.  Need a coffee now and a little tidy up

66Mustang

@Teddybear12

That is a very odd thing to happen!!! I would have worried about finding a flat tyre or scratch down my car as well. Is it possible that she was waiting for the space and you pulled into it without realising that she was waiting, or did she arrive after you had parked?

66Mustang

@Teddybear12 that all seems very odd!! I suppose it ended without any bad incident so it is all good, albeit still stressful.

66Mustang

@Teddybear12 ha ha - maybe!

66Mustang

We have had a hectic day today. Well I haven't I've just been pacing up and down the house waiting for text message updates.

My grandmother (the relative I have mentioned before) has completed her house move today. She has left her old cottage for the final time and moved into a nice large bungalow. All her stuff has been moved by removal men. She has moved from 2 hours away to just the next village along from us. It will be a lot easier for my mother who cares for her and my father who does jobs for her. She used to live near London so she was able to sell her small cottage and buy a large bungalow near us for the same price, as prices are lower here. She has no stairs to worry about. Also to my benefit we will be seeing more of her but for shorter amounts of time which is good as I like seeing her but after a few hours is when she gets grumpy. She wont need to stay for several nights anymore. All in all a successful day.

To put a dampener on the day my mother just received a ticket for not paying to drop someone off at an airport!!! In fairness there was a sign telling you to pay but in her defence she says the area was very busy with cars and there were a queue of people waiting to leave so she couldn't stop and read the sign to see how to pay. £100 for 60 seconds of parking. The "offence" took place on the day of the Queen's funeral, not that that makes any difference but you would have thought maybe they would apply some compassion.

SueHeath

Good afternoon/evening all - hope all you lovely people are well and keeping warm.
lots of good chats on here today, altho i am sorry to hear about your encounter @Teddybear12 do you think she tried to be a bully ??
Hope your fingers okay @66Mustang i can remember you telling us about your relative moving closer, will be better for them all and just in time for Christmas.
Sounds like a bit of a nightmare with the gas @Teigr hope he hasn't charged you loads for doing it.
Bless you @Amberpearl i'm so sorry the friend on the other group has made you feel like this, have a Big Hug of me please, and don't forget there are plenty of us to chat to and i know a lot have cats to. xx

66Mustang

Thanks @SueHeath yes you are right, just in time for Christmas!!!  

janer1967

How was the market @SueHeath

@66Mustang sorry to hear of your mums fine they know how to charge at airports for sure its disgusting.  Glad the relative closer to you all and will make your parents life a bit easier and yours of course 

SueHeath

I was thinking of you earlier @66Mustang I don't know if you watch much TV but channel 5 at 8pm Grand Days Out - Their at the Moors and Dales of Yorkshire, i can remember you were talking about it the other day, might be an interesting watch ???? x