Morning, how's your day going so far?

Teigr

He should be okay @janer1967 if the people who live in the house in question aren't interested in pursuing it,

SueHeath

Morning @janer1967 bless you, bet you'l be glad when this weeks over darling, did Toby go into school okay? xx

Sandy_123

Morning @janer1967 hopefully they won't and probably be a telling off if they did. 

janer1967

Don't know what happened thar should have said hope fil gets home this week @SueHeath

Sandy_123

I'm meeting a freind later I like to give myself a few hours to get ready and take meds and a coffee 

SueHeath

Teigr said:

I like an Easter egg and a bottle of gin @SueHeath,the breakfast of  champions.

ha ha ha  xx

janer1967

Yes he has gone to school OK teacher strike today so only his year have gone in so at least not as many others there 

SueHeath

Yep fil got back to the home last night @janer1967 - give it a couple of days then hopefully it will be old news as they say - then Toby can get his head into his mocks xx

SueHeath

Morning @Teddybear12 have a good catch up with your friend, i'l have the other half of your T/cake with loads of butter please. if you don't want a full one that is   
Sorry @Sandy_123 got caught up with the chats ha ha - have a good day out with your friend as well xx

janer1967

Enjoy your meeting up @Teddybear12 and @Sandy_123 with your friends 

I'm sure it will be yesterday's pretty soon not expecting much from hid mocks as they just this week at least its just the mock 

SueHeath

janer1967 said:

Enjoy your meeting up @Teddybear12 and @Sandy_123 with your friends 

I'm sure it will be yesterday's pretty soon not expecting much from hid mocks as they just this week at least its just the mock 

sorry Janer i thought Toby mocks were next week, i must learn to read and take in more - really sorry. I think Toby sounds like a good lad, and he will hopfully keep his head down and do well, he hasn't got long till the big ones, xx

SueHeath

SueHeath said:

janer1967 said:

Enjoy your meeting up @Teddybear12 and @Sandy_123 with your friends 

I'm sure it will be yesterday's pretty soon not expecting much from hid mocks as they just this week at least its just the mock 

sorry Janer i thought Toby mocks were next week, i must learn to read and take in more - really sorry. I think Toby sounds like a good lad, and he will hopfully keep his head down and do well, he hasn't got long till the big ones, xx

When I say "yesterdays news" that is the way our family deal with the kids when they've had an upset at school and have been refusing to go. The term used to be used a lot in the schools i worked in xx

janer1967

I thought he was a good lad too which is why I'm so disappointed with him 

Think he will have learnt a lesson and me too.

I do get support from bf but it ain't easy as a single mum 

Has anyone heard from @ada didn't see her yesterday unless I missed her 

SueHeath

Not easy being a Mom full stop @janer1967 - you have handled this really well and for Toby to say sorry is a big thing for his age group, he's going through the terrible teens now, it is hard Janer at least you got some of us who have perhaps been through the trials and trivulations of the teen years, i had a terrible time with mine and even now i cringe at the way i spoke to my Mom. 

Yep saw @Ada briefly yesterday, she's started to go out walking with the dog and her partner, fingers crossed it works out for her, xx

janer1967

Thanks @SueHeath I remember seeing that now about @Ada 

I was a nightmare teen too guess it's karma but I never did anything illegal 

I know he could be a lot worse which is why I always tell him how proud I am of him and forget sometimes all he has been through himself 

I did reassure him yesterday I am there to support him and I don't like what he has done but I love him and will get him through this 

Lou67

Good morning @janer1967
You have dealt with this great, your stronger than you think, and I’m not sticking up for Toby but there was probably a lot off peer pressure to do it, and at least he’s sorry for his actions.

@Sandy_123 and @Teddybear12

I hope yous have a lovely day with your friends ❤️

Lou67

Good morning friends.

I hope yous are all good, can’t believe that’s us into March already. @Teigr is right Christmas be here before we know it. 😂

Enjoy your day everyone. ❤️

janer1967

Hi @Lou67 thanks for your kind words there was peer pressure true and was from a lad I've told him tune and time again to stay away from due to previous incidents but he always seems to get toby back on side 

I had already banned him from my house and had some very choice words with him yesterday on the phone 

But toby should know better and is responsible for his actions and is now realising a moment of stupidity could have consequences that affect his future 

I've just got few points to discuss with him later but then I'm going to put it to bed and he can abide by his punishments 

Anyway less of me stop it about Christmas I want summer and my holidays and you have your holiday too and hopefully other members will be making plans too 

Have nice day x x 

Lou67

@janer1967
Yes I totally understand and your best putting it to bed no point dragging it up for both off yous, I’m sure he knows it was a stupid decision he made.

Oh I know I can’t wait for my holidays and I know you’ll be the same.
Lets forget about Christmas 😂

❤️

WelshBlue

@janer1967 ... sorry to hear your son has had a lil' slip but kids do daft things, especially with peer pressure and everything evidenced on social media.  The main thing it's obvious he's being brought up not dragged up and that will help him on his right path. (I'd hate to be growing up now, so much pressure all around them, even with steadying influences)

My kids were nightmares in their younger years ... police/ drama etc.  Now one is 24 and a Paramedic and one is 28 and a Teacher.  They were always told ... tell me the truth and I'll support you ... lie to me and you're on your own.
I like to thing they turned out OK

My day is rubbish ... dropped 3 trays of wet potting compost on a freshly mopped floor - 56 and still getting rows
Now I've just got to find the seeds in the mess